Lauren Ashley
Revelation
- Joined
- Aug 19, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
I love INFJ's!!!!!
ENTJs are so romantic at heart.
I love INFJ's!!!!!
ENFJs. Most of you INFJs are spectacular people.
Well you american INFJs are somewhat strange but not that strange at all.
You keep talking about for example "my NT friends are...", while I myself couldnt even in the most distant way label my friends as anything.
I think you american INFJs are the most receptive to stereotyped thinking and I am conviced that you have to work on it. A great deal
Before even considering to have a german entp friend
ENTJs are so romantic at heart.
Wifey! I'll be your friend.I think all of you INFJ's should be MY soul mate friends! I decree it!
yeah, too bad it's a tiny, stony heart where no light escapes.
Awww thank you!
So the answers are all over the place but one thing I've noticed is that there no ST's mentioned.
There are a lot of theories on romantic matches between types (INFJ goes well with ENTP and ENFP, etc.), but as far as I know, there aren't that many theories on what goes well together in friendships. As far as friends go, it seems like a lot of people just say that you can be friends with anyone and blah blah. Well, lets say you HAD to generalize to specific types being friends. I want some theories on what types are best with other types for friends, specifically INFJs since that is what I am.
I have always had a good amount of close friends, and while I love them and have fun with them, I don't feel a really deep soul matey type bond with any of them. The closest I have come to that would probably be my ISFP friend, but even with her I don't feel like we completely understand one another.
INFJs, do you have a specific friend who you feel like you have a really deep bond with? Do you think your types play into that bond, and if so, how?
One of the most common friendships for INFJs I've noticed is with ISTPs. People are just being idealistic.
I have noticed so far having warm/easy platonic friendships with INFJs, INTJs, and ENFJs. Platonic is the key word though, even with members of the opposite sex.
Romantic feelings have occurred with a couple ENTPs (one of which I know was mutual--in the 6th grade, but never went anywhere), an ISTJ (don't think was mutual), and ESTP (going on right now--i think may be mutual but not sure). Trying to be friends with men of these types is treading on dangerous territory because the feelings can cross into the nonplatonic realm for me.
ESTJ and ENTJ are types I dont enjoy being around, and try to avoid. ENTJ will at least try to understand me. ESTJ doesn't understand me at all and doesn't try to.
One of the most common friendships for INFJs I've noticed is with ISTPs. People are just being idealistic.