small.wonder
So she did.
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I'm newly married to a Sx-first 7w6 and frankly, would just like some insight from those of you who are that type, and/or have a loved one that is! I quite understand the dynamics of both 7 and 6, but sometimes feel at a loss when he is feeling reactive or overwhelmed mentally. To me, it's as simple as, "take a deep breath, make a decision to move forward in action" and not everything we assume or fear, is true. The jumping to conclusions thing, and hyper future focus is hard for me to know how to respond to at times, because it's very presumptuous, worst-case-scenario and sometimes illogical entirely (while parading as logic). I love him very dearly, and everything else about what we have is wonderful-- I just want to do all I can to be supportive and understanding. Also, he is xNTP if that helps.
Thoughts? Thanks!
Thoughts? Thanks!
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