Orangey
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- Joined
- Jun 26, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ESTP
- Enneagram
- 6w5
I know exactly one ENFJ guy IRL. We're not very close. When we were first acquainted on a formal basis, I appreciated how accommodating and welcoming he made interaction with him seem. So I went away pretty fond of him. Then as I had to spend more time around him, I started to grow weary of his showboating. He annoys me with how hard he tries to impress those around him, and what a general goody-two-shoes he tends to be (though I still think he's a good guy and everything). Oh, and he loves the sound of his own voice (meaning he isn't happy unless he's beating our ears down with some lame story or joke that was transparently designed to please the crowd).
Anyway, in a nutshell, I see him as somewhat obnoxious and pretentious, though he's a nice person. And I'm pretty sure he sees me as weird, aloof, and opaque. We're not comfortable around each other for very long. And our intellectual opinions on most things seem to be opposites.
Anyway, in a nutshell, I see him as somewhat obnoxious and pretentious, though he's a nice person. And I'm pretty sure he sees me as weird, aloof, and opaque. We're not comfortable around each other for very long. And our intellectual opinions on most things seem to be opposites.