I could have written the majority of your post myself and was recently typed ENFP but regardless of the hundreds of hours and many months I've put into learning typology and understanding different scenarios and how they'd play out, I couldn't allow myself to rest on any one type lol. I guess I will try to accept the ENFP a bit. What threw me off the most is I almost never know what I like or what I want and I feel like the only thing I'm good at is seeing things from other peoples POV, helping, maintaining the vibe. Made me think I'm On the FeTi axis. Thanks for sharing all of your post though - helped me.