tinkerbell
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Tink, I think you're on to something. I get the sense, after reading a lot about NT's in love, they are even more idealistic than NFs. But in a very different way. Not what I'd call the general idea of idealism, and maybe that's why, they are so hard to live up to. ?
I think when NT's start conditioning they add in SO many constraints they end up searching for dieties...
Yes it feels like an escalation of NF's ideals which are tempered in people, NT's temper in intellectualness - so you invenet unrealistic constraints. NF's are people people - so base their idealisim on plauability. NT's I think take rational qualities and because they are less adapt at people don't realise that some of those qualities don't fit together in real people.
I think Jennifers comment about NT's getting more tollerant with age is true (people generally get more tollerant)... so while NT's are being oooober fussy they potnetially miss the best matches for them.
Not that I have a solution tucked in my back pocket....