On another note, I really have a hard time being around J's. Th judging hurts, and I'm really sensitive. Does anyone else have this problem? I do however do better when it's coupled with an F, because they're a little less critical.
I've had a relationship with an INTJ. He treated me as an inferior, stole my theories and ideas on subjects (MBTI was a subject we both had tons of interest in), mooched, and was generally rude. Sadly, I was delighted by what I thought was intellect (Found out it was all stolen from websites and close friends) and took him back for the somewhat witty conversations that could be held. I didn't give him what he wanted immediately off (My body. Sorry, I'm a slow moving kind of girl.), and he dumped me harder than last week's trash. At a dance. In front of everyone. After that he treated me like crap or ignored me all together, even though we ended up forced to hang out because I ended up with another friend of ours. He said hurtful things, and even told me to leave someone else's barbeque because he didn't like me being there, even though I'd left him alone like he'd wanted. Thankfulyl this is all over a year ago, and he no longer lives within a 300-500 mile radius of me, and I've got a fantastically wonderful INTP.
Other INTJs I've met since have always been a bit too mean, and often selfish for me to deal with.
I bet there is one of you out there that's fantastic, but damn, I've just had a bad streak. ):
I am indeed a girl.Well hey, you go girl.. Are you a girl? You go, guyfriend.
We here at INTJ Headquarters did think 102895465b2's theories where a bit more than he could have come up with by himself. The reprimand's in the mail.
Ah sorry. Just being an asshole.
^ What type then? I have a fantastic relationship with an INTJ, even though I am not an ENFP.
INFPs, INTPs, maybe creative/artistic ISFPs/ISTPs...? Like I (sorta) said, I don't think my view makes sense for all INTJs, mainly just me.
I didn't give him what he wanted immediately off (My body. Sorry, I'm a slow moving kind of girl.), and he dumped me harder than last week's trash. At a dance. In front of everyone. After that he treated me like crap or ignored me all together, even though we ended up forced to hang out because I ended up with another friend of ours. He said hurtful things, and even told me to leave someone else's barbeque because he didn't like me being there, even though I'd left him alone like he'd wanted.
Ya know, I totally answered the wrong question. Just ignore my above answer. I was thinking about who is better suited for INTJs, not who is better for ENFPs. I don't know anything about ENFPs, so I couldn't begin to guess who'd be right for them. My bad!INFP might feel like incest, Ti and Fi can clash (NTPs), and SPs can give the "S/N divide" feeling...there is some reason why a relationship wouldn't work with almost every type, and it varies from individual to individual.
I wouldn't think an ENFP would work well with an ISTJ (I wouldn't want one because it would be too much like Daddy, among other things) but there was this whole thread where several ENFPs said they were in successful LTRs with ISTJs.
It really depends on the individuals, of course. Some ENFPs like INTJs more than others, others prefer ENTPs or ISTPs, etc.
Ya know, I totally answered the wrong question. Just ignore my above answer. I was thinking about who is better suited for INTJs, not who is better for ENFPs. I don't know anything about ENFPs, so I couldn't begin to guess who'd be right for them. My bad!
Also, INTJs tend to be a bit more vain than we are, which is not such a great thing.
To be honest, I think that ENFPs might find the J aspect of INTJs off-putting.