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MyPeeSmellsLikeCoffee247
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- sx/sp
So I just found out my ex boyfriend is an ENTP. Found this thread searching for ENTP/ENFP relationships.
We connected strongly, and stayed together for a little more than 3 years, but eventually it fell apart. He used to laugh openly at my ideas sometimes, but had a lot of short-sighted judgments from my point of view, which made him seem like he was being a jerk. I am a sx-dom ENFP, so I like to make connections with people, and I think that really bothered him. He'd get super mad and say hurtful things when that happened, which in turn pissed me off. I also wanted to explore my spirituality more, and really didn't feel supported in that at all by him. He laughed at me about it, and made fun of what I was doing.
Otherwise, I believe he's a really sweet guy. We made great friends, but it turned out that we just weren't compatible in that way. I was the one who had to break it off with him, and he really tried hard to keep me around. Of course, that wound up meaning we were 'breaking up' for months before we finally broke it off for good.
Does any of this sound ENFP/ENTP? Any insight? I really thought I was going to marry him for a while, and I'm just really interested in analyzing the whole thing.
We connected strongly, and stayed together for a little more than 3 years, but eventually it fell apart. He used to laugh openly at my ideas sometimes, but had a lot of short-sighted judgments from my point of view, which made him seem like he was being a jerk. I am a sx-dom ENFP, so I like to make connections with people, and I think that really bothered him. He'd get super mad and say hurtful things when that happened, which in turn pissed me off. I also wanted to explore my spirituality more, and really didn't feel supported in that at all by him. He laughed at me about it, and made fun of what I was doing.
Otherwise, I believe he's a really sweet guy. We made great friends, but it turned out that we just weren't compatible in that way. I was the one who had to break it off with him, and he really tried hard to keep me around. Of course, that wound up meaning we were 'breaking up' for months before we finally broke it off for good.
Does any of this sound ENFP/ENTP? Any insight? I really thought I was going to marry him for a while, and I'm just really interested in analyzing the whole thing.