Arclight
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- Joined
- Nov 5, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 6w5
You can't claim modesty after this:
I'm sorry, but you can't.
How is it inauthentic to act disinterested in someone you're not interested in. Are you interested in everyone you meet? Maybe higher your standards of interesting human behavior.
I easily overlook most people I meet. You should be more misanthropic like me.
Those are all things people have told me make me charming.. I would never say that about myself.
I think I am ugly, graceless and boring.. and I can't even keep the people I love in my life.. How charming is that?
I am interested in people. But I don't pay heed to everyone. Just if I am forced to be around them.. like work or school. I just feel better disarming people and not having to be on alert.. so I try to connect in some way.. is that bad??