King sns
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- Joined
- Nov 4, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- enfp
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
What's a good catalyst for change for you?
Personally, I need to be pretty unhappy and discontented to want to change anything. (Jobs, residence, friendships, or whatever.) I will always be happier when things have been the same for a while.
I noticed that a lot of people don't think that way though. You Ne people in particular seem to be just always changing for the sake of change. (Or maybe i'm wrong.) Is it that you are unhappy with the way things currently are all the time or is it that you are just happier under uncertain circumstances?
I have an ENFP friend in particular who is always talking about moving, changing jobs, going back to school. (She actually starts some of the plans to and even manages to finish a select few!! Only to move on to something else.) She went through a bunch of relationships within the course of a year. That's so foreign to me. She is a perfectly happy and content person, but continues this kind of behavior.
How do you handle changes when they do need to occur?
I know this is supposed to be an N/S thing but seems like some Se people don't mind it either.
Personally, I need to be pretty unhappy and discontented to want to change anything. (Jobs, residence, friendships, or whatever.) I will always be happier when things have been the same for a while.
I noticed that a lot of people don't think that way though. You Ne people in particular seem to be just always changing for the sake of change. (Or maybe i'm wrong.) Is it that you are unhappy with the way things currently are all the time or is it that you are just happier under uncertain circumstances?
I have an ENFP friend in particular who is always talking about moving, changing jobs, going back to school. (She actually starts some of the plans to and even manages to finish a select few!! Only to move on to something else.) She went through a bunch of relationships within the course of a year. That's so foreign to me. She is a perfectly happy and content person, but continues this kind of behavior.
How do you handle changes when they do need to occur?
I know this is supposed to be an N/S thing but seems like some Se people don't mind it either.