Attachment Style Quix

[Morpeko]

Attachment Style Quiz

Attachment Style Quiz

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Fearful Avoidant: 28%
Anxious Preoccupied: 33%
Dismissive Avoidant: 17%
Secure: 22%

 

[yubih]

Fearful Avoidant: 35%
Anxious Preoccupied: 18%
Dismissive Avoidant: 24%
Secure: 24%

 

[Maou]

Fearful Avoidant: 36%
Anxious Preoccupied: 0%
Dismissive Avoidant: 55%
Secure: 9%

 

[Saturnal Snowqueen]

Fearful Avoidant: 28%

Anxious Preoccupied: 28%

Dismissive Avoidant: 28%

Secure: 17%

 

[Jai]

Fearful Avoidant: 30%

Anxious Preoccupied: 25%

Dismissive Avoidant: 30%

Secure: 15%

 

[Frosty]

Fearful Avoidant: 46%

Anxious Preoccupied: 8%

Dismissive Avoidant: 46%

Secure: 0%

 

[Pessimistic Hippie]

Fearful Avoidant - 40%

Anxious Preoccupied - 10%

Dismissive Avoidant - 40%

Secure - 10%
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Interesting.

If I put a label on how I feel about relationships at this point, it'd probably be something like "I'm spending an awful lot of time with someone I won't fully know for years, and that's supposed to mean something?"

 

[Kas]

Fearful Avoidant: 21%
Anxious Preoccupied: 29%
Dismissive Avoidant: 14%
Secure: 36%

 

[RadicalDoubt]

Fearful Avoidant: 22%
Anxious Preoccupied: 0%
Dismissive Avoidant: 56%
Secure: 22%

 

[fatgurl]

Fearful Avoidant: 28%

Anxious Preoccupied: 33%

Dismissive Avoidant: 22%

Secure: 17%

 

[Kaneda]

 

[Kephalos]

Here's my results, I guess:

Date me at your own risk.

Anxious Preoccupied:​

• I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others, but I often find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like
• I am uncomfortable being without close relationships, but I sometimes worry that others don't value me as much as I value them.

Fearful Avoidant: ​

• It is important to me to feel independent and self-sufficient.
• I prefer not to depend on others or have others depend on me.

Dismissive Avoidant:​

• I am somewhat uncomfortable getting close to others.
• I want emotionally close relationships, but I find it difficult to completely trust others, or to depend on them.
• I sometimes worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to other people.

 

[Mind Maverick]

 

[Luminous]

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• Fearful Avoidant: 29%
  
  
• Anxious Preoccupied: 29%
  
  
• Dismissive Avoidant: 7%
  
  
• Secure: 36%

 

[Stigmata]

partner or love interests.​

• Fearful Avoidant: 33%
  
  
• Anxious Preoccupied: 8%
  
  
• Dismissive Avoidant: 42%
  
  
• Secure: 17%

 

[fatgurl]

Fearful Avoidant: 32%
Anxious Preoccupied: 32%
Dismissive Avoidant: 32%
Secure: 5%

Lol

 

[Doctor Cringelord]

Anxious Preoccupied 17%

Dismissive Avoidant 33%

Fearful Avoidant 33%

Securely Attached 17%

I’d categorize myself as fearful avoidant (disorganized). I exhibited more anxious preoccupied behavior when younger but have gravitated more toward a dismissive style in adulthood

 

[Lexicon]

Anxious Preoccupied 0%

Dismissive Avoidant 25%

Fearful Avoidant 17%

Securely Attached 58%

Probably would’ve been very different in my 20s, & not for the better. Like 50/50 dismissive/fearful avoidant, I think.
I do not miss that.

 

[highlander]