Princess Marshmallow
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- Nov 6, 2015
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- MBTI Type
- ESTP
- Enneagram
- 4w3
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
What is your MBTI and Enneagram Type?
I don't know my MBTI type. I thought ENFP, ENTP, ISTP, then ESTP, ENFJ, INFJ, ESTJ, ENTJ. I change my type a lot. I think my enneagram tritype is 4w3 - Xw6 - 1w9 though. I am certain about my 4w3 core. I am leaning towards ENFP in MBTI, but I really don't know anymore. Dominant Ne would explain why I keep exploring my options. I would really appreciate any kind of help!
What got you interested in Personality Type?
I was always interested in personality and discovering more about myself. What brought me to personality type forums were seeing character types. I wanted to know what all those letters meant and now I expanded my knowledge to a certain degree. I don't think I have grasped it yet, but I have decent knowledge of cognitive functions now in my opinion.
What kind of work do you do for a living?
I am still a student. I am currently switching studies. I hope to study Fashion & Design Styling next year.
What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
I don't think I have accomplished anything yet. Although I did arrange a dog when we weren't supposed to have one and he is almost two now (9 November he turns two) and the sweetest creature on earth. If I have to pick an accomplishment, it's him. How did I achieve this? (I think that might help determine my type, to see my thinking process)
My mother was about to turn 50 and she told me she wanted a dog, I asked dad if we ever got a dog, he said: no. I asked what if mom wanted a dog, answer still: no. So what did I do? I went through all the options and knew there was one thing that could work. I hacked my father's Facebook account, where I saw some puppies my mom loved, and send their old friend Jannie and Anthony a message how we would like to take a look because 'kaat' was turning 50. I actually checked my dad's mail to see how he writes, horribly btw, no commas, no dots and no capitals. And it looked like my dad wrote it. After that, I erased all my tracks and kept messaging with them. I went through all kind of scenarios my dad could use against a dog and had an answer on every critique he had ready. So one night I told my father what I did, now I already had an appointment if we could take a look. I made a list of pro's and con's and managed to convince him, but then I really didn't plan to back down either.
What would constitute a perfect day for you?
A day where I get to experience new exciting things. Like going to Asia, Greece, taste their food, take pictures to capture moments and just a lot of fun and discovering. The world is to discover and there are so many great things to see and maybe explore something nobody ever did. The world is full of mysteries and there are great things we can do. I am very idealistic and a big time daydreamer. I see possibilities everywhere. You would make me the happiest to take me somewhere I have never been before and let me bring my camera and do exciting new things. I want to see and experience it all.
What are you most grateful for in your life?
My dog and writing. I love writing. It's a way for me to get my feelings out. I don't like to share them and writing relieves. I have a dozen documents on my computer where I wrote things off my chest. I am very private, unless it has to do with home, as I really can't handle that on my own. My home situation is a mess and sometimes I feel like my feelings and views are irrational and it just really helps to have someone tell me they aren't. I only share those on a thread on a forum and with Yarden as I only trust them with them. In real life I am really closed about it. I love my dog and he always make me feel good. He is so sweet and if anyone dares to touch him, I will kick your ass. Seriously, he is precious.
Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
Yes! So much. I have so many dreams, but I have a tendency to not always take action as some dreams are better to be dreamed than experienced. Traveling is something I really want/need to do. It's one of the very few ideas I feel like actually carrying out. I want to see what's out there, do new things, broaden my view even more. I haven't done it yet because I need to get a college degree first and save money for it so I can afford it. I am excited about a lot of things.
If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
Oh boy, just let me skip this question. It's complex.
Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
Where do I start? Haha, no honestly. I embarrass myself all the time. Like one time, Natalia scared me in the school's bathroom so I had this 'brilliant' idea to do the same. So when I was waiting for her outside on the hallway I heard someone wash their hands and as it took pretty long I figured that would be Natalia. You can guess what happens next. I pull the door, get in and yell super loud, only to see a girl standing there, with a face as white as a blanket. She walked past me and didn't say a thing. Ten seconds later, Natalia walks out, laughing her ass off. I was laughing, but damn that was awkward. Poor girl. She must have thought I was crazy.
Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
I always take through things to say in my mind, like I have a database of what to say and how to be charming and then forget all my plans while calling.
If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?
That is a though one. I would like any power. That would be great. Imagine the things I could do. Maybe invisibility, so I can play pranks on people. I always play pranks on people. One time at school camp, I crawled into a person's bed, at the foot under the rolled up blanket. So they turned the lights off and I grabbed her ankle. I have never seen anyone that scared. Now they text me when we are out together if I am in bed. I think I traumatized her. Being invisible would make pranking easier.
What do you value most in a friendship?
Trust and having fun, while also being able to talk seriously. I like people that can teach me something in any area. I am very open minded. My best friend, Natalia, who is an INFJ and I enjoy the good stuff and I know she isn't going behind my back. We appreciate every moment together, don't push each other to hang out, are relaxed with each other and we have the same kind of wanderlust. She is one of the few people I really talk with about my personal life.
What is your most treasured memory?
I remember going to the army compound my cousin is stationed with him. He let me take the track there (which wasn't even allowed, which made it even more fun) with him and I've seen and experienced all kind of new things. I loved the running, getting on top of that truck, discovering what they did there, putting on his army jacket, marching for fun and bonding with him. He, Pip and my little INTP brother are the persons I am closest to in my family. I liked it because it was different and we got to talk. He has the same kind of humor.
What roles do love and affection play in your life?
I often appear to be warm, but, I have no idea how to explain this. I suck at love. I get bored with my boyfriends like after two weeks. It's like I always think there is someone better out there. I always screw things up. I am not very huggy-feely, but apparently I am great to talk to as I tend to lighten up the mood. I always find a way to make someone laugh when he/she is having a hard time. I don't like people being sad as I know what that is like, so I'll try out all kind of ideas to make them smile.
Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
I would probably safe either my books or designer clothes. I think my clothes as I can loan books at the library, but that would devastate me. Some of my stuff have sentimental meaning. Now that I think about it, I would safe my pink stuffed animal dog, as it was my first and helped me through hard times. I am kinda a hoarder.
Who would you want with you if you were stranded on a deserted island?
Anyone who can make fire and provide food with me, but also is happy. I can't stand moody people. You need to make the best of it. If I had to pick one person I would say Natalia.
If you could do anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
Making my own perfume, sketching in front of a big mountain, order a cocktail. Honestly, anything new sounds good to me.
If money was no object, what would you do all day?
Traveling or shopping. I would like obtaining local souvenirs, that aren't really souvenirs. I would like something unconventional, but also something that reminds me of the place.
Who is your favorite author?
Francine Oomen. She is a dutch writes whom writes: How to survive (insert something here like freshman year or love) ? It's a book series about a girl Rosa who experiences new things and learns how to deal with them with also help of her friends. It's creatively written and I really relate to the main character (who I believe is some kind of xNFP). It also has quiet some traveling!
What is your favorite book?
Hoe overleef ik ... mezelf? (How to survive myself?), it explores Rosa's puberty and she gets into new exciting things, messes up, dies her hair and rebels. I find it the most relate-able book of all. It is a secret though, for my friends. I don't want them to read it. It's mine.
What has been your biggest challenge?
To settle down for a bit. I have changed identity over the years, trying out to see what fits me, my hair cried from all the dying I think. I almost had any color and I change it like every two months. My hair and wallet don't like it. I still find it hard not to change hairstyle, clothing style and hair color every season. I keep re-inventing myself. My friends even text me every holiday to check if I am still me. I often shock them with my sudden changes as they don't recognize me at first sight.
If you could go back in time, what year would you travel to?
I like the 16th century a lot, but I would be okay with anytime, though I am not sure about dinosaurs. I like vegetarians (yess same <3), but velociraptors scare the crap out of me. Hmm I know. If I got to live in that time, I would say the 70's. I liked how they went out more and actually hung out together everyday. I miss that personal connection.
What does your life say about you?
That I am messy and random I guess. I am not sure if I can ever settle down and be who people expect me to be.
How would your friends describe you?
Scatterbrained, good kind of weird, random, contemplative, can't stick with made decisions, sometimes blunt, private and hard to guess what's going on in my mind. I often hear the word fast paced as well. They think I am hard to keep up with.
I don't know my MBTI type. I thought ENFP, ENTP, ISTP, then ESTP, ENFJ, INFJ, ESTJ, ENTJ. I change my type a lot. I think my enneagram tritype is 4w3 - Xw6 - 1w9 though. I am certain about my 4w3 core. I am leaning towards ENFP in MBTI, but I really don't know anymore. Dominant Ne would explain why I keep exploring my options. I would really appreciate any kind of help!
What got you interested in Personality Type?
I was always interested in personality and discovering more about myself. What brought me to personality type forums were seeing character types. I wanted to know what all those letters meant and now I expanded my knowledge to a certain degree. I don't think I have grasped it yet, but I have decent knowledge of cognitive functions now in my opinion.
What kind of work do you do for a living?
I am still a student. I am currently switching studies. I hope to study Fashion & Design Styling next year.
What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
I don't think I have accomplished anything yet. Although I did arrange a dog when we weren't supposed to have one and he is almost two now (9 November he turns two) and the sweetest creature on earth. If I have to pick an accomplishment, it's him. How did I achieve this? (I think that might help determine my type, to see my thinking process)
My mother was about to turn 50 and she told me she wanted a dog, I asked dad if we ever got a dog, he said: no. I asked what if mom wanted a dog, answer still: no. So what did I do? I went through all the options and knew there was one thing that could work. I hacked my father's Facebook account, where I saw some puppies my mom loved, and send their old friend Jannie and Anthony a message how we would like to take a look because 'kaat' was turning 50. I actually checked my dad's mail to see how he writes, horribly btw, no commas, no dots and no capitals. And it looked like my dad wrote it. After that, I erased all my tracks and kept messaging with them. I went through all kind of scenarios my dad could use against a dog and had an answer on every critique he had ready. So one night I told my father what I did, now I already had an appointment if we could take a look. I made a list of pro's and con's and managed to convince him, but then I really didn't plan to back down either.
What would constitute a perfect day for you?
A day where I get to experience new exciting things. Like going to Asia, Greece, taste their food, take pictures to capture moments and just a lot of fun and discovering. The world is to discover and there are so many great things to see and maybe explore something nobody ever did. The world is full of mysteries and there are great things we can do. I am very idealistic and a big time daydreamer. I see possibilities everywhere. You would make me the happiest to take me somewhere I have never been before and let me bring my camera and do exciting new things. I want to see and experience it all.
What are you most grateful for in your life?
My dog and writing. I love writing. It's a way for me to get my feelings out. I don't like to share them and writing relieves. I have a dozen documents on my computer where I wrote things off my chest. I am very private, unless it has to do with home, as I really can't handle that on my own. My home situation is a mess and sometimes I feel like my feelings and views are irrational and it just really helps to have someone tell me they aren't. I only share those on a thread on a forum and with Yarden as I only trust them with them. In real life I am really closed about it. I love my dog and he always make me feel good. He is so sweet and if anyone dares to touch him, I will kick your ass. Seriously, he is precious.
Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
Yes! So much. I have so many dreams, but I have a tendency to not always take action as some dreams are better to be dreamed than experienced. Traveling is something I really want/need to do. It's one of the very few ideas I feel like actually carrying out. I want to see what's out there, do new things, broaden my view even more. I haven't done it yet because I need to get a college degree first and save money for it so I can afford it. I am excited about a lot of things.
If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
Oh boy, just let me skip this question. It's complex.
Share an embarrassing moment in your life.
Where do I start? Haha, no honestly. I embarrass myself all the time. Like one time, Natalia scared me in the school's bathroom so I had this 'brilliant' idea to do the same. So when I was waiting for her outside on the hallway I heard someone wash their hands and as it took pretty long I figured that would be Natalia. You can guess what happens next. I pull the door, get in and yell super loud, only to see a girl standing there, with a face as white as a blanket. She walked past me and didn't say a thing. Ten seconds later, Natalia walks out, laughing her ass off. I was laughing, but damn that was awkward. Poor girl. She must have thought I was crazy.
Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
I always take through things to say in my mind, like I have a database of what to say and how to be charming and then forget all my plans while calling.
If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?
That is a though one. I would like any power. That would be great. Imagine the things I could do. Maybe invisibility, so I can play pranks on people. I always play pranks on people. One time at school camp, I crawled into a person's bed, at the foot under the rolled up blanket. So they turned the lights off and I grabbed her ankle. I have never seen anyone that scared. Now they text me when we are out together if I am in bed. I think I traumatized her. Being invisible would make pranking easier.
What do you value most in a friendship?
Trust and having fun, while also being able to talk seriously. I like people that can teach me something in any area. I am very open minded. My best friend, Natalia, who is an INFJ and I enjoy the good stuff and I know she isn't going behind my back. We appreciate every moment together, don't push each other to hang out, are relaxed with each other and we have the same kind of wanderlust. She is one of the few people I really talk with about my personal life.
What is your most treasured memory?
I remember going to the army compound my cousin is stationed with him. He let me take the track there (which wasn't even allowed, which made it even more fun) with him and I've seen and experienced all kind of new things. I loved the running, getting on top of that truck, discovering what they did there, putting on his army jacket, marching for fun and bonding with him. He, Pip and my little INTP brother are the persons I am closest to in my family. I liked it because it was different and we got to talk. He has the same kind of humor.
What roles do love and affection play in your life?
I often appear to be warm, but, I have no idea how to explain this. I suck at love. I get bored with my boyfriends like after two weeks. It's like I always think there is someone better out there. I always screw things up. I am not very huggy-feely, but apparently I am great to talk to as I tend to lighten up the mood. I always find a way to make someone laugh when he/she is having a hard time. I don't like people being sad as I know what that is like, so I'll try out all kind of ideas to make them smile.
Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
I would probably safe either my books or designer clothes. I think my clothes as I can loan books at the library, but that would devastate me. Some of my stuff have sentimental meaning. Now that I think about it, I would safe my pink stuffed animal dog, as it was my first and helped me through hard times. I am kinda a hoarder.
Who would you want with you if you were stranded on a deserted island?
Anyone who can make fire and provide food with me, but also is happy. I can't stand moody people. You need to make the best of it. If I had to pick one person I would say Natalia.
If you could do anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
Making my own perfume, sketching in front of a big mountain, order a cocktail. Honestly, anything new sounds good to me.
If money was no object, what would you do all day?
Traveling or shopping. I would like obtaining local souvenirs, that aren't really souvenirs. I would like something unconventional, but also something that reminds me of the place.
Who is your favorite author?
Francine Oomen. She is a dutch writes whom writes: How to survive (insert something here like freshman year or love) ? It's a book series about a girl Rosa who experiences new things and learns how to deal with them with also help of her friends. It's creatively written and I really relate to the main character (who I believe is some kind of xNFP). It also has quiet some traveling!
What is your favorite book?
Hoe overleef ik ... mezelf? (How to survive myself?), it explores Rosa's puberty and she gets into new exciting things, messes up, dies her hair and rebels. I find it the most relate-able book of all. It is a secret though, for my friends. I don't want them to read it. It's mine.
What has been your biggest challenge?
To settle down for a bit. I have changed identity over the years, trying out to see what fits me, my hair cried from all the dying I think. I almost had any color and I change it like every two months. My hair and wallet don't like it. I still find it hard not to change hairstyle, clothing style and hair color every season. I keep re-inventing myself. My friends even text me every holiday to check if I am still me. I often shock them with my sudden changes as they don't recognize me at first sight.
If you could go back in time, what year would you travel to?
I like the 16th century a lot, but I would be okay with anytime, though I am not sure about dinosaurs. I like vegetarians (yess same <3), but velociraptors scare the crap out of me. Hmm I know. If I got to live in that time, I would say the 70's. I liked how they went out more and actually hung out together everyday. I miss that personal connection.
What does your life say about you?
That I am messy and random I guess. I am not sure if I can ever settle down and be who people expect me to be.
How would your friends describe you?
Scatterbrained, good kind of weird, random, contemplative, can't stick with made decisions, sometimes blunt, private and hard to guess what's going on in my mind. I often hear the word fast paced as well. They think I am hard to keep up with.