What's so hard about being a punctual, considerate, mature adult?
What's so hard about leaving people to do what they want, not obsessively trying to tell everyone what to do, not pressing your morals or beliefs, and not using BS accusations to try to make miserable or put down everyone so you feel "in control?"
Why is it so hard to understand that not everyone needs to have everything spelt out for them and planned out to function, and that not everyone needs to do things the way you define, and that you impose your crap to gain comfort, certainty, and control, not to help the other person or to be "tough on them so they get their 'ish together?"
Why does punctual = considerate? What about the annoying, irritating, insulting kinda garbage that often comes out of your mouth as you judge, judge, judge when things aren't in the little boxes you want them to be in? Considerate? What about the attempts to have it sting when you realize the person you are insulting couldn't care less what you think?
How could you possibly say anything about someone not using proper grammar other than that they aren't using proper grammar? Why does improper grammar = inconsiderate, stupid, etc? I don't get these associations. Where do they come from? What is this BS? But then again, judgers, guardians especially, are the source of most prejudices the world has seen.
"She's blonde, she's stupid."
"He wears baggy jeans, he's stupid."
"He talks with an accent, he's stupid."
"She lives in a trailer park, she's white trash, sleeping with family members, etc."
"He's black, he's a criminal."
"He's Indian, he's a terrorist."
"He's Indian, he's cheap labor."
"She's Asian, clearly she's obligated to be with me, because I'm white."
WTF is this crap?