you don't solve something without first finding the solution. the solution is based on how you feel about it. you sort that out and then you take action...you don't take action first...do you really not get that?
This is because our processes of thinking is quite different.
I am very deliberate person while I presume you are not that much.
What means that I am working towards goals.
So here is the thing: I don't have to think what I really want all the time.
When something happens or occures my Ni just throws everything I need to know out and how to solve the problem. If it is something more complex then I will need to use my T.
In a way this is automated reaction. This is because I don't doubt in my goals. But every now and then I stop and rearrange if something is wrong or iif there ara some better things to do.
I hope this makes sense to you.
Okay, AO. I got through a whole 7 pages of you covering your ass and Atheniwhozit getting moist at everything you said before ralphing and drilling a new hole in my head to get the stupid hemorrhaging into my head in check.
This is a poor, pathetic excuse at covering up what you're really trying to do: Provoke and insult NFs as a whole. You're not curious, you're being haughty and just plain rude. Don't try and hide your insults behind this lame "research" excuse. You couldn't care less about what people type in their own personal blogs.
My proof of your haughty-ass ways, if you wanted it.
As you probably already know I disagree. My problem is that I really don't understand F function and I need that knowledge since I plan to get out of
I would dare to say isolation.
But my problems with NFs/Fs is that they often claim something and that claim goes to the wind when they are emotionally charged.
If you start normal converstion with all feeler syou can rarely see what is beneath the skin since their natural appoach is to be friendly. What covers the main process that is hidden in their heads.
I said "pity" in a title but this about more things then just a petty.
For example there is also a lot of threads about insecurities.
I don't know, maybe I am wrong about this but to me it looks that a number of NF are not what they seem to be in real life and the only way to get the out of their shell is to get them emotionally charged.
For example I don't know why people tend to "explode". I simply don't get it.
Also if the person expodes I can't just talk to it since if I remain calm that will irritate them even more. So I am forced to more argue with them.
Since if I don't, there will be even more damadge.
You can freely curse me how much you like but you will not trigger anger. Which is because I suck at feelings.
Personally I have never smashed something because I was angry. I can't even remember when I cursed someones name last time. (since it was years ago)
Until I joined here I did not have any idea what is happening in heads of a typical NF or SF.
Or you did, and now that you're being called out for trying to cover your emotional, irritated ass you've gotta stick with your lies. It's cool.
Nope.
Really? This is why you're calling NFs emos and bitching about personal threads you're roaming through? Again, I'm calling out your bullshit.
Yes, I think you could use more positive atmosphere since it looks you like it. But for some reason people tend to close into themselfves when they are depresed and I don't understand why. Also since I am a loner people tend to think I am fighting strong depression on my own. What is not true.
What creates pressure on me and I dont even understand why people are so sure that I am depressed. Even people on this forum tend to think this way.
Imagine different scenario then it is.
I have opened a thread and said : Why are NF so depressed ?
What would I get for this ?
I would probaby got shallow information and thread would probably end after 20-30 posts.
If I now ask you: Why things that make you unhapply make you unhappy ?
What would you say to me?
Probably majority of answers in that hypothetical thread would sound similar as will.
But if I attack there are chances that because of the tensions something useful (to me) will come out.
Why do you think I have opened the thread " What do you think about Fs? " in NT private forum on the same day ?
I have opened it to see how Ts relate to Fs and NFs so that I will be able to see how I can create normal communication with them.
I have never in my life had one of those deep friendships.
But all people who I contact and talk to are Ts (male or female).
Which is because I am unable to form a long conversation with an F in face to face conversation.
Here is the OP of that thread.
Very simple:What do you trully think about feelers ?
All areas of life are included into this question/thread. I know that Fs are very wide group of people and that there are healthy ones and unhealthy ones.
So people/NTs are free to take this question in way that they relate it to their expriances with Fs and what they find good and what they find bad about them.
I suggest to Fs to take this thread as useful information instead and not as a hostile gesture.
I'm not sure how much more of this you want me to swallow, because my throat only opens up so wide. You're saying your personality is distorted online. But everyone else DEFINITELY has an accurate representation of them on the Internet. Fantastic.
Yes, I think it is and I said it is. But if this is true what you are saying then why there are so many emotionally charged post around here ?
Your personality is distorted but it still represents you fairly well and mine still represensts me. So it is reasonable to presume that NF are fighting on the inside if there is so many post that are emotionally charged.
I am sorry but in a way your reaction is a mistery to me. I don't understand why people tend to react this way. I really don't. I have only theories.
Btw, thank for understanding Sy.