Hmm... I would like to point out that you are not doing too well on this part:
I am not trying to make people mad here I am trying to understand.
That is because you failed the "understand" part, and throw everything back at the people who were listening (if it's not too arrogant of me, I suggest that you pay attention to what is being said before denying the possibility that they might be right at some things). Well, anyways... I'll try to answer a couple of questions for you.
I am often creeped by people who I see as a stereotypical thinker. They seem very cold and "inhuman" in their way. This doesn't mean that they couldn't be very moral. You might also have some stereotypical image in your head and it is blocking the real image.
I don't understand them. I see making decisions off of your feelings as selfish and irrisponsible. The worst excuse ever, "I felt like it", like that matters.
Here's a few examples that might clarify the idea of decision making: "I want to be a movie producer when I grow up". Why? "I want that girl" Why? "I want money" Why?
Every "why" will eventually lead to a feeling based decision, no matter how hard you want to rationalize it. And the answer is always "I feel like it". Even if you make a decision to obey someone (which would mean that you are not selfish, since it isn't you who decides) it would still be your decision to obey, which means that you
feel the person is somehow worth of you obeying.
Where is the self control?
Guilt is a strong feeling... I really don't want to feel it any more than I have to.
You cant argue against what someone is feeling and asking someone to take your feelings into account is like asking them to cater unobjectively to you.
Umm.. Here I really don't see what you mean. Why would you want anyone you like to treat you
objectively? I see the point in some cases... like... you go to a shop and want to pay for the food and nothing more, but that's about it. I want people to like me, not think of me like just one more face in the crowd.