Okay, that was really stupid of me haha... because my answer was sorta coming from a place of "if the INFJ is pissed that you didn't heed their advice - that will be obvious to you" (not obvious = not pissed.) Grandmother, mother, sister, ex <-these four occasionally cause me to forget that many NFJs value harmony all the time and not just when they themselves are in a harmonious mood... and will not readily express their
blinding rage discontent.
Honestly, with how much concern and thoughtfulness goes into these kinds of things prior to you guys putting forth suggestions for improvement/advice...I would be obviously, externally pissed if someone didn't at least try my idea but rather continued to complain? omg. I'm so glad I don't focus on problems at all. Mine or anybody else's
disclaimer: while everything I say above is 100% true...I'm purposely being weird haha (I'm in total control of my weirdness at all times.) I really appreciate the response.