Family:
ENTJ (Dad) - I generally have a good relationship with my dad because we're both practical, no-nonsense, blunt and don't hold grudges. We argue quite frequently because he has a tendency to get angry over what I consider trivial things and I'll stand up to this injustice, but he'll be really lax over issues which I think are unacceptable. 5 minutes after an argument we'll be on good terms again though. He's very encouraging, but I think his style suited me better than my brothers; I've always got good results academically, but he let his disappointment show whenever my brothers didn't do well at school and they needed positivity and a bit more guidance. When I was a child I barely saw him because he spent all day at work and all night at wine bars. He loves parties. I love him though, and I see him as the linchpin of our family.
ISFP (Mum) - Since becoming a teenager I never understood her, up until a couple of years ago. Now I'm appreciating her a lot more. She is an artist, in literal terms also. I always argued against her 'illogical' approach as a teenager, and because I argued back it made things worse. She's a very good mother though, very caring and quite selfless. Only in recent years have I realised her shyness and vulnerability, and I feel quite protective of her now. She's very isolated but doesn't seem to mind. I feel that her attempts to install some guidance and direction were undermined by my dad's 'anything goes, as long as I don't care' approach.
ESxP (Younger brother) - Truly, he's a mystery to me. I'm not even sure whether he's introvert or extravert because he's so closed up at home, but seems really sociable with friends and they all seem to love him. I think ESTP is probably him. We don't really see eye to eye. I think I piss him off a lot because he sees me as being too rigid.
ENFJ (Youngest brother) - Again, I've only started to appreciate what he's about recently. He's always frustrated me because he's just so unbothered about everything except seeing his friends. Needless to say, he dropped out of school. I suppose I'm frustrated because he really doesn't seem to think about his own life; he always goes on about how all he cares about is making people laugh. But I feel maybe they laugh *at* him sometimes, and now he's the one suffering in some respects. He smokes cannabis regularly as well, which makes me sad. I see it as another way that he's deteriorating himself to fit in with others. I hope he'll grow into his life soon, because it does strike me that he can have low self-esteem sometimes.
(Interestingly, my mum and dad are MBTI opposites, so according to some theories they should be a perfect match... They got divorced. Not without some horrific shouting either. It's a case of totally different values.)