skylights
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- Joined
- Jul 6, 2010
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
But that's just fake, she has no issues about Fi, she doesn't care, but she knows how to simulate it. That's being apporpriate and be Fe. She's actually quickly became her own manager and assistant. She could even assist and manage you. [...] As I've explained, it's fake. She actually has no Fi.
I don't think that's true. The way she exudes her energy and independence is very aligned with Fi. You don't have to explicitly go against others to be Fi... but the way she bears herself, presents herself, and demonstrates her individuality is plenty to evidence laid-back Fi. On the contrary, there's nothing about her in person that really demonstrates dominant Fe. She doesn't tend to respond based on the initiator, showing interpersonal accord, nor does she tend to initiate engagement, showing intentional interpersonal modulation. She does express value in concepts like pride and family, but less responsibility and loyalty.
I think whatever you're interpreting as Fe control is probably Se influence.