I'd say 9 or 3. Mainer culture is very 9w8/8w9-mind each other's business, let things go but don't be a "sissy", keep to yourself but protect your loved ones. Northern Maine is more solution master tri, Eastern good samaritan, central Maine justice fighter or triple attachment(my area now seems more triple attachment compared to where I lived that was like 45 minutes from here). Western Maine is hard to read but I suppose systems builder, and then southern 9 core ambassador. But yeah, all together I think the core values are pretty 8w9/9w8. My other fixes were fine, but I feel like my 4ness did not swim well in my culture. Growing up, I didn't see much individuality amongst the students, there was so many people involved in the "country" culture and bragging about mudding and hunting. The men were expected to be able to fix things, and the ladies while still stereotypically feminine were basically personified female country songs. 90% of the people there were like that, even the people with more "geeky" and artsy interests. I was the only one I recall not being interested in hunting, fishing, mudding, snowmobiling, etc. High school things were a little more mixed up luckily since more people, but still. Then I moved to the mediator town, where there were still those country people but there were a lot of preppy AP class people too, lots of different cliques. Poorer people vs the "lake kids". Even though I had little in the way of friends, my 4 fix fit in just fine. There wasn't really any "norm" to be, and also there was a lot of LGBT people, like even the statistics showed that compared to other towns in Maine we were extra LGBT so that was fun(stats may be off depending on whose out or not but yeah). As for my parents, my mom seemed to want me to be a 3. She really pushed me academically, and I went along with that at first but eventually when I realized I couldn't live up to those expectations it sucked the 3ness out of me. She wanted to doll me up the way she pleased, and was upset that I wasn't more outgoing despite being that way herself. Could have been projection? Meanwhile, even though he's a 1w9 core, I guess my dad raised me to be a 9, but that's probably cause he had so little expectations for me. Just give things a try, be respectful, take things easy- those were the main things he really cared about. My extended family luckily doesn't have much drama going on with them, and they never really expressed any particular expectations for me.