paperoceans
Une Femme est une femme
- Joined
- Aug 24, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
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- 8w7
A person is only likable if they have deep pockets.
A person is only likable if they have deep pockets.
People who are polite and have good manners are respectable, but I think they're boring and I don't particularly like them.
Easy beans.
LIKE
similar
resembling
analogous
allied
parallel
cognate
close
NOT LIKE
different
far away
dissimilar
not resembling
YOU
of Anglo Saxon lician to please < to suit, to match
< to be like
YOU
Gothic leikan, to please
< to suit, to match <to be like
YOU
Swedish likna, to match
< lik, close; near
YOU
Scandinavian loan in Finnish: liki-
liki-näkö < myopia, close-eyedness
Middle English lich, a corpse
< a body < samelike, like
YOU
German Leich, body < samelike
original meaning: form, shape, look, a likeness to
YOU
A form is a likeness.
The idea of form is recognition. A re-cognition: again-knowing.
Again is an idea of what was before, a match, a likeness, a closeness to what was already.
What was already?
YOU were.
You like people to whom YOU bear a resemblance, a closeness, a likeness of
form and shape.
Leichnam or Leiche
Leich are the eggs of female fish
Society is a sausage, there is no such thing as real friendship, especially for a con man, who even manages to deceive himself.
All the people I like bring something latent out in my personality. I think that's important. Likable people either enhance your good traits or make you feel good about having bad ones.
I like people with attitude.
A little anger, or a little pride, or sarcasm, or some kind of swagger, or some of edgy quality.
People who are polite and have good manners are respectable, but I think they're boring and I don't particularly like them.
Thank you for the correction. My mistake.Leichnam or Leiche
Leich are the eggs of female fish
To me many things at the same time in the right proportions, depending on what they are and who they are coming from.What makes a person likeable?
Openness is a core trait, as far as I'm concerned. Synarch and I chatted about this a few months ago. Openness is a sign of strength. I dig it.Is there a core trait? Openness?
Again, yes. I like people that have the following traits in some functional measure:Is it a set of traits? If so, what are they?
I think the role someone is playing in my life is directly dependent on how many of the above criteria must be satisified and to what degree. I am a people lover by default, but the ones that I gravitate to, and choose to keep current with are the ones who have alot of the list above going on. Those are my core folks, my base, my friends and advisors.What do you think?
Why not?