Helen Parr (Incredibles)
Ellen Ripley (Alien)
Sarah Connor (Terminator)
Elle Arroway (Contact)
Bess MacNeil (Breaking the Waves) -- Regardless of the outcome of her decisions, what she did she did out of love for her husband.
Mary MacGregeor (Rob Roy) -- She kept a secret as a sacrifice / gift of love to her husband.
Princess Isabelle (Braveheart) -- Strong, beautiful, gracious, intelligent, and not to be dominated.
The entire female cast of "Kill Bill, Vol 1 & 2." (All of them very much "hell on wheels" without losing their femininity.)
Female cast (six actresses) of "The Descent" -- Female interplay and comraderie that was tough, yet feminine, in the midst of horrific circumstances.
Satine (Moulin Rouge) -- A woman trying to fend for herself, while maintaining her tangled web of relationships.
Sun, Kate, Ana-Lucia, Rousseau (Lost) -- Strong women who can deal with men, yet (mostly Sun and Kate) passionately give of themselves to care for the people they love.
Eowyn (Lord of the Rings) -- In some ways weak due to her insecurities, but trying so hard to be true to her kin, show strength, prove herself adequate.
Alma (Brokeback Mountain) -- Tried to make a difficult marriage work, fought to preserve it and still care for her kids despite her heart being broken.
Mary Jane Parker (Spiderman 2) -- Loves Peter, gives up convenience to be with someone she loves... although she realizes how much it will cost her to be involved with a man with split commitments.
Clementine (Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind) -- Yay, an ESFJ heroine! She is rough, belligerent, in emotionally flux... and yet she is so committed to giving of herself.
Lynn Sear and Anna Crowe (Sixth Sense) -- Another ESFJ heroine, Lynn is the fierce, loyal, loving, die-for-her-son mom who at the same just has such a loving and very real connection with him. Even though she doesn't understand her son and at times becomes furious with him, she will NEVER abandon him or turn on him. Anna, meanwhile, is quieter and gentler in her suffering... which you only realize afterwards that she has been dealing with throughout the movie, her heart having been broken.
Belle (Beauty and the Beast) -- Intelligent, funny, imaginative, perceptive, loyal to her promises, and dedicated to the people she loves... even while being hurt by them and always standing up for herself.