miss fortune
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my sister is an ENFJ... she has stated before that there's no greater feeling than vengance served on the evil
When did it become about Fe or Fi? I didn't mention those concepts, really didn't think they had much bearing and another ENFP didn't seem mention it as a Fe/Fi thing.
I stated it's context dependent and you believe it's context independent. Sometimes the best strategy is not immediately saying anything because people make themselves look foolish and dig a deep hole for themselves without you having to say a word. I'm not advocating being a pushover, I'm advocating knowing when to move. If moving immediately works in that context then do it, but I don't think that's always the route to go. It's not about being afraid of confrontation, conflict, or indirect. Confrontation will occur and an explanation of what went wrong is expected.
Also, I've seen people keep trying to one-up each other and both of them look like idiotic children. You saying your piece doesn't make the other person cease from saying theirs. Matters escalate and spill into other areas because no one knew how to put the brakes on and take matters privately or their pride and sense of being disrespected keeps them from moving away from the situation towards other means of resolution.
Outside of the professional environment, do what you do and if it works continue on.
If it wasn't against my religion and I didn't have a strong sense of self-preservation I could see myself becoming a regular angel of vengeance.
If you find a some way to get the super powers and a loophole from accountability, look me up. We could have a lot of fun until we started feeling guilty!Get outta my head, cafe! I would love to do the same. However, I would have to answer to that *Higher Power*. Nah, I figure I'll have enough to answer for.
This is where I find a need to have super powers. I could do whatever I wanted with my mind. (and still have to be accountable, of course :)
Hmm...well, I guess if I think more about it, I guess there are a few people that I wouldn't mind mild to moderately unpleasant things happening to them...I don't want anything terrible to happen to hardly anyone. Mild to moderately unpleasant, though . . .
I think of that bitch principal at my kids' old elementary and how I'd like to spray her VW Bug convertible down with some kind of corrosive substance! Just to cause a paint/body damage, not to eat away her break lines or anything. I can dream.Hmm...well, I guess if I think more about it, I guess there are a few people that I wouldn't mind mild to moderately unpleasant things happening to them...
When I think of revenge/justice/comeuppance, I tend to think about it in extremes...since that's how most people in my life tend to treat it. :/
There have been people who've done terrible things to me, but still at the same time...I don't really want anything terrible to happen to them. I don't know why that is.
It does bother me A LOT though, when good people aren't rewarded and life basically craps all over them.
LOL. Yeah, I have an INFP daughter and if she's going to get, you it's going to right when you tick her off.Fe seems hardcore on the comeuppance thing. I, myself, get revenge fantasies. It has to be a major thing though. Once I label a person a "jerk", it's not good.