Sx/Sp
Typical Mindset: "If I can make (us) have an orderly & pleasing lifestyle, I can keep up and escalate all this merging/intensity."
Can you relate on this?
Presumably the end of that sentence might be 'but if I can't then I should probably stay out of would be lover's/friend's/child's way (and if you feel strongly/dramatic about this) because they would be better of without me (and if you're unhealthy with it) and I might wreck the life they already have...' Could this be true or is it way off the mark?
Wow, Speed. This little mantra is very concise yet insightful...Did you think it up yourself or get it from somewhere? I can't quite relate to this, but on the positive side I might have found the stacking of my boyfriend here...I found the site with these little mantras, and even though I thought it was the sp part that I got wrong, I can't seem to relate to the idea of 'if I can do this then I can keep a good social position/have respect...' Does social always have to be that way?
'I can have merging/intensity without having to leave my orderly & pleasing lifestyle.'
Expression: wistful self-absorbed expression, sighing, magic is in their head
Energy: calm, steady energy expressed intensely, withdrawing
Behavior: withdrawn, calm, wistful and self absorbed
Mindset: "I can have merging/intensity without having to leave my orderly & pleasing lifestyle." (imagination, safe people and relationships, when the safety of these are challenged they withdraw)
Examples: Alanis Morisette, Amelie (Amelie)
This fits, but only if my 'orderly and pleasing lifestyle' is allowed, in this definition, to occur mostly in daydreams (I am a huge dreamer) of somewhere much more beautiful than any reality, where I can experience things that are never going to happen to me (which I can, in my head, but my physical lifestyle, it is far from orderly) ...I love to have that kind of security, and the safety of some perfect daydream to return to when I've had a tough day and I don't want to 'put on' those around me. In general, however ,I am not a very practical person in any sense of the word, I tend to forget to do things easily,and I delight in paying particular attention to the needs and emotions of my boyfriend and family, and trying to make sure they feel happy/loved/as beautiful as they really are, at all costs. I am never concerned over the last time I ate or what my physical surroundings look like, my family are more important than any single thing I own, and when we didn't have much money, and when my boyfriend worried about marriage, and 'giving me a proper wedding,' I politely informed him that unless he wanted a formal affair, we could get married in a field as long as we were both there and happy. He too was happy with this, however we put if off because our mums got upset at this idea. procrastinate and deal with mundanities only as a matter of necessity, but I hate to put on other people, so I make sure things get done...This doesn't bode well for Sp dominance, does it? Have I completely misunderstood this again?
Sorry for this...
Kind Regards
FalseHeartDothKnow