Mole
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Spontaneity is the essence of pleasure.
But spontaneity is a two edged sword.
For spontaneity means letting go of control for a while, and allowing spontaneity to come out to play.
But some of us are low, cheap and nasty and spontaneity allows this to come out to play.
On the other hand some of us are noble and full of delight. And spontaneity also allows this to come out to play.
So the most important thing in allowing spontaneous pleasure is to choose the right environment.
And choosing the right environment means choosing the right people.
And who are the right people?
The right ones are those who have benefited from the helping mode of child rearing.
And the ones to avoid are those from the sacrificial, the abusive or the authoritian modes of child rearing.
So of the four psycho-classes we need to choose the psycho-class that can enjoy spontaneous pleasure.
But spontaneity is a two edged sword.
For spontaneity means letting go of control for a while, and allowing spontaneity to come out to play.
But some of us are low, cheap and nasty and spontaneity allows this to come out to play.
On the other hand some of us are noble and full of delight. And spontaneity also allows this to come out to play.
So the most important thing in allowing spontaneous pleasure is to choose the right environment.
And choosing the right environment means choosing the right people.
And who are the right people?
The right ones are those who have benefited from the helping mode of child rearing.
And the ones to avoid are those from the sacrificial, the abusive or the authoritian modes of child rearing.
So of the four psycho-classes we need to choose the psycho-class that can enjoy spontaneous pleasure.