Ok for me, I can totally mirror people, which is something I need to control, or I loose myself. There are times, especially with very strong type personalities that I even feel it's impossible for me not to mirror them, which is a little scary.
I guess, when I am really just me "me", then I can be a really cool sweet person, but most of the time, when I am not me "me" and just the social lady, then I am just nice. Other times, when i feel intimidated by stonger type personalities, I will even come off as shy (whilst "trying" to be myself) But in front of them I'm scared to be myself because I am too worried what they will think about me, so...
ok weird, anyway, you get the picture, I am not trying to be fake it's more trying to be nice or socially acceptable. And maybe I'm worried that the real, just plain old, say whatever you want to say "me", won't be liked. So therefore I simply can't be me in front of everyone, cause I'm scared of rejection.
Deep.
cheers, dee