Yama
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- Joined
- Dec 1, 2014
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- MBTI Type
- ESFJ
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
*cough* I'm just your sad little experiment, aren't I?
You don't understand what Fe and you're not a 4 core, so cool it and stop feeling terrible for yourself.
An authentic feeling, you're labeling us all Fe users as people without real feeling, that somehow our feelings are less validating?
You ignore me, not even considering my feelings. Not a rep, nothing and I gave you a lot of my time on this forum supporting you. So really. Don't claim to be this life-saving authority on what this function is, because you're hell as not as the archetype of it and neither am I.
Fi is about values and morals essentially, not how "authentic" their feeling is. We can have terrible deep feelings too. You don't think I don't feel when my friend died?? ... I know you're confused so really, and you told me MBTI is just a fun thing for you and you don't take it seriously, have you changed your mind now? So stick up to it and tell me.
No more lies. Why don't we work together? You think since I am an INFJ I am just too different for you? Is that it? Maybe I should make my video topic on Fe.
No one grows as a given. No one. You piss me off at times, lux. It's like anything I contributed to the community is shit. My struggles are just minor and I can't understand what you're going through because my concepts of gender are faulty. I apparently know nothing. Well gee, sorry. Yes I realize I am shaming you, because you're embarrassing me in spite of what I done to help you.
Don't act like you don't know me. You saw me on video before while you hid your face. So please respect. Peace.
I wasn't really talking about you at all... I'm sorry if what I said offended you.
I'm frustrated with the way Fe is described. My point was that I'm Fe and I don't feel like my feelings are less authentic or deep than anyone else's, and that's what bothers me about it. I'm venting off frustration.
You sent me a rep and I didn't respond... I don't always respond to reps. I didn't know you wanted a response. I was taking a nap when you sent it and then came back and only responded to quotes. I'm sorry.
I'm not claiming to be a "life-saving authority" on anything...? And I'm definitely not the archetype of anything. Nor have I claimed to be.
Like I said, I'm frustrated and venting. I, also, don't think it's fair to say only Fi feelings are authentic or "deep," and that's why I'm complaining.
I tend to contradict myself and I've been told I'm very "self forgetting" but I don't lie, everything I say I mean fully at the time that I say it. Really I don't think I should take typology so seriously, but I guess I am right now because I'm frustrated.
I don't think you're "too different" for me or whatever you're trying to describe. I don't know where this sudden self-consciousness regarding me came from... it's like I woke up one day and you decided that I hated you and like I haven't been able to convince you otherwise so I don't really know what else to do. :/
I don't like fighting or misunderstandings and I really have no idea where this post came from. I'm sorry if I'm annoying, pissing you off, embarrassing and shameful. It isn't ever my intention to upset people.
Well, when I read that last sentence ...I do feel horrible that you feel this way. I mean, on some level I do care about how people see me too...
But don't let other people's opinions get to you too much. Each and every way of being (...unless you enjoy killing people) is just is.
it's only you who gets to decide what meaning it has for you.
But if it means anything, that I think you're very much not broken. you're a wonderful representation of what it means to be more than what one can see.
It's a really unhealthy behavior that I'm trying to get over but it's hard.