My friend has a silver car. He was picking me up.
There was another silver car in the parking lot, waiting for something..i don't know. It was on.
I get in the passenger seat of the car, and start to buckle up, only to look up to see a shocked stranger looking right back at me.
I apologize and get out of the car...feeling really stupid.
And proceed to get into the right car. My friend laughs at me..but doesn't seem too surprised.
Seeing as I'm 6 foot, and black, add that to the fact it was 12 at night and I don't even want to know what was going through his head. However, it's a college campus and it's a pretty friendly place. So yeah. Pretty standard for me, really.
I've been thinking a good way to find male intps is to look for the "idiot in the room", and ask him about something other than sports/music/cars etc etc. I always think I'm coming off as an idiot when I talk about those things. If someone was to ask me about god, religion, space, time, the future, the singularity, consciousness, techie stuff, emotions, people, psychology etc I'd probably talk their ear off. But, no one wants to talk about those things..so it is what it is..