My ideal mate would be someone that's decent enough to always be nice to me and to coddle me, but strong and prickly enough to protect me from everyone else.
I don't necessarily (or really) want anyone that's perfect. They just have to be willing to
try to be nice. And who keeps the differences between us from hurting me when I don't have the energy to adapt to them. Like, they don't have to be flawless.
They also need to be responsible and not mind picking up after me, because I'm seriously a big enough pig to count for two people :blushing:
Honestly, I'd be living out of a cardboard box somewhere on the streets if it weren't for some of the responsible people in my life to take care of me
So... every time I take a "what type do you want" quiz, it always comes out as ISTJ. And I guess it works out pretty well -- they're good with the responsibility stuff and I'm good with... something?
The only thing is though... well, they're assholes. Not all the time. But... well, you guys know. They're awesome people, don't get me wrong. They just have a tendency to say asshole things and do asshole stuff. And they're totally oblivious as to why it's wrong
An INTJ wouldn't be so bad, I think. Except that they're like ISTJs, but assholes about completely different things... you know,
logic
Idk. I want someone quiet and strong, but warm and fuzzy on the inside. That's kind of a challenge, but knows when to take care of me when I need it.
... because there's
totally people out there like that