I'm certain that if I posted a video of myself, there would be no question that I am someone with strong Fe. To the extent that the fact that I could consider ESFJ a possibility wouldn't seem strange at all. I'm extremely expressive but I think most people have solidified their heuristic of me based off when I was nearly catatonic in my depression, which is a terrible benchmark to take but ok. In reality, you can even see some of how expressive I am in the fact that I mirror even in my online interactions and tend to have no capacity for monosyllabic forms of expression. On the daily, I often find people who aren't very expressive and are essentially what could be referred to as Fi, to be confusing in a sense.
I understand that people have often clung to the erroneous idea that I want to be a type (ISFJ) when the fact of the matter is, that couldn't be further from the truth. I am so beyond that and have been for years, I am not one of those people who needs type because they are not able to stand on their own. I think they are weak in a way I cannot manage to be as a grown woman and I detest being counted among those people to be honest. I would never have managed to grow past the teenage girl who once needed type if I wanted to be a type past my teens. Nor would I be someone who sees constricting limitations of type as suffocating, someone who sees it all as ultimately worthless if I were someone who wanted to be a type. I wouldn't be who I am today if I could settle for just being a type, I wouldn't have gotten there if I could do that past my teens.
The latter common accusation being the most important part of all of this, obviously. The former issue only serving to lead into it. It does not matter at all what people would like to think I am, it is all not real. And so it is equally easy not to care that xSFJ is the pariah. It doesn't need to be framed through the lens of "e4 hipster", it doesn't need to be shoehorned into such things when I am something greater than any of this inherently, a person. Which is what must be considered in order to find the truth, for the person I am is a component of reality in the way what type I "am" is not.