I can't tell you how to type yourself but you simply don't strike me as a TJ type.
I would believe that the TJ types are what this community has the most comfort in stereotyping.
But FJ is still a possibility.
A few other factors:
I say my opinion sometimes knowing it's not the most socially acceptable.
I feel deeply. Idk if it's Fe or Te that I notice the emotion but I try to use my head and try to understand what's going around me. Usually I'm stunted by my feelings rather than propelled.
I've learned to accept that however I express myself someone is not going to like me for it.
Just yesterday, I freely spoke about gender norms, stratifications, and stereotypes without caring that I was in a religious school.
Growing up, I kind of knew what was right and wrong for myself. I'm seriously hurt by those who feel like they can be part of a religion but break one of its most serious rules and still consider themselves a part without serious repentance. If you can't follow the religion without sincerity, I advise people to leave it.
I'm the only in my family who has done very strong changes and I shared music and views that I know wasn't popular and I was softly and passive aggressively pushed to the side, except my immediate family.
I know that I am an Ni Dom because I primarily perceive through intuitions rather than feelings. I say feel to replace intuit so I don't sound arrogant. I don't think you have to be a douche or stiffnecked to be an INTJ.
When people talk to me about their problems, I don't really tell them I know how they feel because I don't believe I do. I suggest what I'm feeling and people have always told me no that's not what their feeling. Most of the problems was actually I listed the wrong feeling.
I say happy, sad, or angry to just be easy. But then further analyzing my emotions it is actually shame, grief, contempt, insulted all their own tone. I just can't label the feeling just in time because it feels so mysterious until I get back in privacy and it starts to make a clearer impression.
Anyway, I usually say if I were you, I'd take the independent route, but I don't always say that because there are people who value family the highest.
I have a real hard time getting along with people who don't identify with my values.
It could be perhaps being born male, I have more of an inclination to be independent. But Idk if I am doing it for gender norms because I can be hysterical just because I want to be like a popular girl.
But really, I guess it's not the most important thing to focus on life. I'm going to practice develop Te through external organization. Organize yourself before others.
I'm good with rules if I am committed to the project and did some previous reading. I mean I won't read a law or policy book but what's most important to the project itself.