Could being in a large family vs. being in a small family affect how the child learns to relate to others dramatically enough to overset the limitations of a particular type? Would an ISTP girl born in a house full of extroverts be likely to have better control over her Se at a younger age? Or is type something that pretty much develops independently, at a set pace, not unsettled by near anything? Bit of both? Of course the ISTP female would still need that time to recharge with Ti, but would she have developed more creative and low-key ways of getting that time? When do you start to bend with those around you, and where is the tradeoff? Is there always a tradeoff?
most introverts need alone time to recharge. for me personally i just need time to do my own thing. I dont care if someone is with me or not. As long as its a me thing i am good. I also generally dont associate with needy people because i would have to recharge away from them and i dont like that. I tend to gravitate towards people i can recharge while in their presence.
Edit: well not socialyy needy. Can do needy wher it leaves me doing my own thing to help