Before I ever read this thread, I thought to myself "I bet he's an INFP" Something just stikes me. I feel like I can "get him" I love Kurt/Nirvana and know quite a bit about him. I've "studied" his music, watched his interviews, etc. And to me his (supposed) suicide note has INFP written all over it. Or maybe that's just me...
Here's a part esp. that made me think INFP:
"I'm too sensitive. I need to be slightly numb in order to regain the enthusiasms I once had as a child.
On our last 3 tours, I've had a much better appreciation for all the people I've known personally, and as fans of our music, but I still can't get over the frustration, the guilt and empathy I have for everyone. There's good in all of us and I think I simply love people too much, so much that it makes me feel too fucking sad. The sad little, sensitive, unappreciative, Pisces, Jesus man. Why don't you just enjoy it? I don't know!
I have a goddess of a wife who sweats ambition and empathy and a daughter who reminds me too much of what i used to be, full of love and joy, kissing every person she meets because everyone is good and will do her no harm. And that terrifies me to the point to where I can barely function. I can't stand the thought of Frances becoming the miserable, self-destructive, death rocker that I've become.
I have it good, very good, and I'm grateful, but since the age of seven, I've become hateful towards all humans in general. Only because it seems so easy for people to get along that have empathy. Only because I love and feel sorry for people too much I guess.
Thank you all from the pit of my burning, nauseous stomach for your letters and concern during the past years. I'm too much of an erratic, moody baby! I don't have the passion anymore, and so remember, it's better to burn out than to fade away."
I'm not trying to label him INFP straight-up no questions. But it's just a strong sense I get from him.
Some are just a few points I could make to see if we can figure it out:
- He was brilliant artist...has anyone seen his drawings? Wow.
- He claimed people always told him he's way too introverted (atlough I don't think anyone is actually questioning him being introverted here?)
- He said people thought he was naieve, innocent and needs looking after.
- He said he procrastinates
Meh. Sounds a lot like INFP to me.