I would be curious to know how the internet ones differ from the ones from people who know you IRL.
Noteable Differences (skipping out any votes with less than 4 IRL):
Known to Self & Others
Real Life: Reflective (5); Clever (4).
MBTIc: Reflective (3); Confident (3); Independent (3).
Known to Others
Real Life: Energetic (4); Logical (6); Observant (6); Organized (4); Searching (4); trustworthy (5).
MBTIc: Intelligent (6); Searching (3); Self-Assertive (4)
Not Known to Others (but known to self)
Real Life: wise
MBTIc: clever
To sum:
Although generally speaking, the parts of my identity came across both online and IRL, they appear to be differently weighted between the two worlds.
For instance, although my friends did pick things like intelligent/ingenious/knowledgeable (which were all selected a few times but not many times each), the dominant theme to my Real Life friend identity was my clever/observant/needing to grow myself aspect of my personality. The Ni, perhaps? The TJness showed up IRL also with my logical/organized part getting a lot of hits.
Reflective came up on both. Would this be attributed to INxx? IxxJ?
However, on MBTIc, not one person picked clever. What do people think this means? (I'm asking not because I care that no one picked clever, but what does this mean for how I am different IRL vs. online?) Is this a
different use of Ni in my two worlds, or is this just plain different?
I've also had people handwrite thank-you notes or verbalize that they appreciate my wisdom when it comes to helping them decipher a situation or figure out what to do or just flesh out an issue. But, not one of my RL friends mentioned "wise". To be honest, I am not surprised. If I didn't have the thank you notes, etc. to remind me, I might be second-guessing this of myself if my friends didn't see it in me. But, it's just that I give off my goofy-energy-clever-wondering vibes far more than I allow people to see my personal, serious side. I'm not hiding it, but it's quite personal and when I'm not intimately relating to people, like when I'm around multiple friends, I tend to stay distant from this personal side of me.
(Most of my RL friends did not do the negative traits; the ones that were picked, however, were distant, withdrawn, aloof and insensitive. Perhaps my ENFJ skills aren't being employed as much as they could be around my RL friends that know the real me very well.)