how could i forget.
an INTJ once dumped me on my bday (what IS it about NYE?). we were engaged. it was
delightful.
i eventually moved on, started dating someone else, we fell in love and moved to another country to launch a business there. 6 months after moving, the INTJ who dumped me emails me and asks me to meet him in the main city square at 2 pm the following day. i am speechless--how did he get there, why did he follow me to another country, doesn't he know from mutual friends that i am dating someone else?
my current boyfriend says this is not a joke and that i should meet him at the appointed spot (we'll call that boyfriend INTJ 2, vs. INTJ 1 = dumper). i reluctantly agree that it would be rude not to show up, as INTJ 1 doesn't even speak the language.
INTJ 1 shows up at 2 pm on the dot, in a painfully new suit, brandishing a red rose. and, ladies and gentlemen, walks up to me and says: "i want you to know that you are the most important person in the world to me. i love you, and want you to be my wife."
*pulls out a box with a ring*
INTJ 2 was there for moral support (rose-holding INTJ 1 had rather cruelly dumped me, after all). he awkwardly introduces himself to INTJ 1 and excuses himself with a shocked look on his face so INTJ 1 and i could talk. i suppose we were all wearing shocked expressions. INTJ 1 then tells me that he made a horrible mistake in dumping me. that he hasn't been able to stop thinking about me. THAT HE TOOK A LEAVE OF ABSENCE FROM HIS JOB TO COME AND BE WITH ME.
INTJ 1 looks
really confused when i point out to him that most of our mutual friends knew i had moved to another country with someone else. he says he maybe should have told them about his plan to propose, but wanted to surprise me. we exchange awkward pleasantries, i inquire whether he needs any restaurant recommendations or a place to stay. he says, no, he'll be fine. we walk to where INTJ 2 is waiting, exchange an awkward hug, and part ways.
isn't romance wonderful.