Ah I relate to so many of the posts here.
And to answer the OP, yes it makes me insane when I can't find something... Really wildly irrationally angry sometimes.
I posted this in the sensortard thread... (I was angry, there's a lot of swearing, is this ok?)
I always like to have a pen with me when I read, for underlining or notating anything that particularly catches me. Every single time every single day I manage to lose the damn pen. It drives me insane. I am so careful to pay conscious attention to where I put it, poked under my thigh as I'm sitting cross legged, for example. I see a line I want to underline, the pen is there and I don't have to break my concentration to grab it, highlight, continue reading. Inevitably at some point I don't put it back wedged under my leg and when I need it, I can't find it anywhere. First I hunt blindly with my hand, not looking away from the book. That fails, more searching. Fucking pen. Set the book down. Fuck by now I am getting really pissed off. I look everywhere, it is fucking gone. FUCK YOU PEN. I stand up, wildly furious. This is the point where my (INTP) husband finds it most amusing to take his life in his hands and start irritating the hell out of me. I am almost ready to kill someone when, oh yes there's the pen. In plain fucking sight right beside the spot I was sitting.
Also driving freaks me out, as someone mentioned, so does crossing roads. I seem to scare people who are with me. I must give off this vibe of 'not-there' because it is not uncommon for people to actually grab me when I'm standing by the road to cross, like they think I was just about to walk in front of traffic. (Ok I admit there have been a few times I almost did this, probably why it scares me now.)
Sometimes my INTP and I argue over whose turn it is to find something