^ You don't seem like an INTJ to me either. (Hee, I read your Hate list and immediately was reminded of my ISTJ dad z.z). Reading your list here, again, reminds me of ISTJs in general.
You enjoy repetition, hmm. I wouldn't think INTJs of liking too much repetition at all-- reminds me of Si. Doing the tried, tested and true and enjoying it.
Taberculosis said:
As a child, I would have been described as INTJ because I never listened to anyone and did things my own way.
I would think INTJ children can be more complacent and would listen, so long as people (or the adults instructing them) are being reasonable and will explain why they're having them do certain tasks or are in their presence bothering them when they're busy and would rather be alone... Out of curiousity, would you say you were called a daydreamer as a kid or consider yourself as being one? I'd guess no. (?)
I also think ISTJs are better at Te, or at least initially, than INTJs. Also, INTJs won't bother if they don't feel like explaining themselves, especially if not given enough time to formulate their thoughts-- or they just don't think the people are worth it or will understand them, anyway. I'd think ISTJs would be quicker than them to voice their thoughts and would lay down the law.-especially when shutting people down, when they deserve it. INTJs won't care to bother, unless directly affected. It's not worth it to them.
-However, I am more future orientated (like and INTJ) as opposed to the "here and now" like an ISTJ.
Everyone can be future oriented, at times.
You can develop yourself/CPs and appear to be a less 'stereotypical' version of an ISTJ, for sure, and evolve into a more balanced person. Who says you can't strengthen Ni or Fi? etc Have you looked into learning CPs?