"If a friend seems intent on self-destruction and totally refuses help, the INFJ cannot in good conscience continue to sit by and do nothing while a friend goes down in flames. The relationship must be severed.
In short, they care too much.
And so they don't let people in readily at all."
(Quote from another thread.)
Do you see the paradox? What on earth does 'care' mean here? If you have closed the door or make sure you keep your sensitive head in the sand, what good do all the feelings in the world do? Isnt this just blatant self protection?
In short, they care too much.
And so they don't let people in readily at all."
(Quote from another thread.)
Do you see the paradox? What on earth does 'care' mean here? If you have closed the door or make sure you keep your sensitive head in the sand, what good do all the feelings in the world do? Isnt this just blatant self protection?