Hi all!
I'm Francesca, and I've studied MBTI theory in the last 4 months, like personal interest.
I'm going crazy to type me XD I don't know why, it seems that I can't fit anywhere. I need an external view, can you help me?
I synthesized my biggest problems in recognizing me by function Enjoy
E/I: I stay pretty well with others, but I tend to adapt myself to other people.
If they are funny and open, I will be funny and open. If they are quiet and close, so me.
I do the same with the environment: if I can feel confident, I can be enterprising; It’s like I measure room/people temperature and I adapt myself to them.
Usually I haven’t so much problems with environments, I have more with people and so I’ve built an armor of competence and assertiveness to approach to people that make me feel uncomfortable.
When there is something new usually my approach depend on room/people temperature: if I can feel ‘safe’ I can go and have my personal approach to the new thing (curious me XD). Usually I’m not scared by things in themselves, but by people/environment mood and this defines my approach to all the things. After a social interaction I really appreciate my privacy.
So, I can’t really decide if I’m E or I. If you need more examples I will give to you .
N/S: My memories are made mainly by EMOTIONS, then by colors and smells, the meaning of discussions (not words or details).
When I speak with others my topic depend by them: I can plan things to do, and speak about theories. Maybe I prefer a little bit more speaking about theories, but I can’t do it with my friends because they don’t like it so I do it on the internet or alone.
I can see a problem under billions of perspectives and usually I strongly prefer to look at the whole situations to understand the principles and meaning behind the reality, so I can predict exactly how it will be in the future. Details are not my strengths.
I relate with them only to make the difference between processes/situations that are similar, to discriminate them and to find the best solution/prediction specifically. After that I become really practical and I work towards my goals.
Usually I need someone that takes me on the earth because I think that all the things are ‘easy’, and that I can really go to the moon if I want (^^). I hate to manage with details and bureaucratic stuffs and it’s annoying and frustrating to me when a person is indecisive.
Again, I don’t know if it’s more N or more S.
MORE INFORMATIONS: I decided to make this division because over this line there are ‘heart informations’ and under I’ve wrote more about my hobbies and daily behaviours. It’s a deeper description.
If I’m doing something that I’ve done before usually my mind is on its way, thinking about other stuffs (what I will do next, or topic of interest like MBTI or theories, or problems that I have to solve -I’m a chemist-).
I feel relaxed when I can do something new: astronomy, psychology, religions, moral manuals, physics, chemistry, cooking, gardening, photography, writing, reading books -> both non-fiction and fiction, both has to be complex, intriguing and full of suspense, like Sherlock Holmes (book), Inception (film), or Astronomic Physic.
I like more open-ends, and stuffs that let me to reflect about myself, others and nature. Usually I tend to think about ‘superior and mystical stuffs’ starting by ‘cold stuffs’: example from Astronomy to Religion. I like to do ‘head sport’, in which is more important your head performance that your physical one, like horse riding, sailing and paragliding.
I’m at the same a book worm and someone that likes to be inside the Nature, usually alone, and to feel completely overwhelmed by Nature. In some way it’s like Nature is the only ‘thing’ that can understand me completely and that it’s big, strength, comfortable and protective enough to take care of my whole feelings and thoughts. In front of the beauty of the landscape I always think to something ‘Godly’ and mystical or anyway something ‘superior’. Usually when I remember events I remember mostly emotions and actions, colors and smells. I speak about them.
T/F: I give to moral factors the priority, but I examine really deep a situation. If I think that something is immoral, I will not do. My values are ‘external’, because I’m a religious people, and I adapt flexibly my values to the situation.
Example: steal to eat or steal to have more money isn’t the same. People are both thieves, but for me the first one is not in a proper way, so I justify him more than the second.
I try to have consensus when I speak about a solution of a problem, and I always think at the best solution to all the people involved. If someone needs to do more sacrifices I speak to him about the rewards that he will have in future. I apply rules and logical stuffs to solve the problem in the best way. I’m always confident and optimist because I trust myself and my skills to solve the problem, even if I’m unsure.
During arguments with other people I can easily put myself in them shoes and work on the common ground between the sides, or suggest a third option that works on their common side. I work for compromise and conciliation. Usually I’m good to read people, but to be 100% sure I ‘prove’ them putting them in situations to understand their behavior or if I can I ask. Usually I think the best of everyone.
MORE INFORMATIONS: I decided to make this division because over this line there are ‘heart informations’ and under I’ve wrote more about my hobbies and daily behaviours. It’s a deeper description.
Like I’ve said, usually I tend to adapt myself to situations/people/environment. I work inside the box to let the box goes ahead in a direction that is good for everyone and with less obstacles/danger possible. Others go on and I follow them to smooth their paths and ways.
When I’m analyzing someone new I pay attention to his/her emotions and I focus myself on why he is speaking in this way. Usually I can feel and understand really deep and well how they feel and why, both. When they finish to speak I give them advices to plan the best possible solution, taking into the equation their needs and desires.
When there is a problem I prefer to close my emotion in a box and to approach it in this way, or I will be overwhelmed. Sometimes I let my emotions literally go out (I cry for anger or let my fear comes up for some time) so I will be more focused after this release of emotion. To make a decision I put always other inside the ‘problem’ and I let them influence my choices, because I care about their feelings and health.
J/P: I HATE indecisiveness. I plan my actions, but not in a strict way. I know what I should do in every case and usually I’m prepared, but in the general meaning of the world: like I’m confident in my skills and abilities, I have a solid preparation and I’m not scared to face unexpected. I like unexpected? It depends: could be a good surprise or not; anyway I can manage. I can say I have the ‘bones’ of the plan (Step A, step B, step C) but not all the details, that I adjust when the situation comes closer to be more specific and act at the best (not last minute but anyway in time).
NB: I can give more informations on the single function, or how I use it, but I wanted FIRST to IDENTIFY which one I use
Thank you for your patience ^^
I'm Francesca, and I've studied MBTI theory in the last 4 months, like personal interest.
I'm going crazy to type me XD I don't know why, it seems that I can't fit anywhere. I need an external view, can you help me?
I synthesized my biggest problems in recognizing me by function Enjoy
E/I: I stay pretty well with others, but I tend to adapt myself to other people.
If they are funny and open, I will be funny and open. If they are quiet and close, so me.
I do the same with the environment: if I can feel confident, I can be enterprising; It’s like I measure room/people temperature and I adapt myself to them.
Usually I haven’t so much problems with environments, I have more with people and so I’ve built an armor of competence and assertiveness to approach to people that make me feel uncomfortable.
When there is something new usually my approach depend on room/people temperature: if I can feel ‘safe’ I can go and have my personal approach to the new thing (curious me XD). Usually I’m not scared by things in themselves, but by people/environment mood and this defines my approach to all the things. After a social interaction I really appreciate my privacy.
So, I can’t really decide if I’m E or I. If you need more examples I will give to you .
N/S: My memories are made mainly by EMOTIONS, then by colors and smells, the meaning of discussions (not words or details).
When I speak with others my topic depend by them: I can plan things to do, and speak about theories. Maybe I prefer a little bit more speaking about theories, but I can’t do it with my friends because they don’t like it so I do it on the internet or alone.
I can see a problem under billions of perspectives and usually I strongly prefer to look at the whole situations to understand the principles and meaning behind the reality, so I can predict exactly how it will be in the future. Details are not my strengths.
I relate with them only to make the difference between processes/situations that are similar, to discriminate them and to find the best solution/prediction specifically. After that I become really practical and I work towards my goals.
Usually I need someone that takes me on the earth because I think that all the things are ‘easy’, and that I can really go to the moon if I want (^^). I hate to manage with details and bureaucratic stuffs and it’s annoying and frustrating to me when a person is indecisive.
Again, I don’t know if it’s more N or more S.
MORE INFORMATIONS: I decided to make this division because over this line there are ‘heart informations’ and under I’ve wrote more about my hobbies and daily behaviours. It’s a deeper description.
If I’m doing something that I’ve done before usually my mind is on its way, thinking about other stuffs (what I will do next, or topic of interest like MBTI or theories, or problems that I have to solve -I’m a chemist-).
I feel relaxed when I can do something new: astronomy, psychology, religions, moral manuals, physics, chemistry, cooking, gardening, photography, writing, reading books -> both non-fiction and fiction, both has to be complex, intriguing and full of suspense, like Sherlock Holmes (book), Inception (film), or Astronomic Physic.
I like more open-ends, and stuffs that let me to reflect about myself, others and nature. Usually I tend to think about ‘superior and mystical stuffs’ starting by ‘cold stuffs’: example from Astronomy to Religion. I like to do ‘head sport’, in which is more important your head performance that your physical one, like horse riding, sailing and paragliding.
I’m at the same a book worm and someone that likes to be inside the Nature, usually alone, and to feel completely overwhelmed by Nature. In some way it’s like Nature is the only ‘thing’ that can understand me completely and that it’s big, strength, comfortable and protective enough to take care of my whole feelings and thoughts. In front of the beauty of the landscape I always think to something ‘Godly’ and mystical or anyway something ‘superior’. Usually when I remember events I remember mostly emotions and actions, colors and smells. I speak about them.
T/F: I give to moral factors the priority, but I examine really deep a situation. If I think that something is immoral, I will not do. My values are ‘external’, because I’m a religious people, and I adapt flexibly my values to the situation.
Example: steal to eat or steal to have more money isn’t the same. People are both thieves, but for me the first one is not in a proper way, so I justify him more than the second.
I try to have consensus when I speak about a solution of a problem, and I always think at the best solution to all the people involved. If someone needs to do more sacrifices I speak to him about the rewards that he will have in future. I apply rules and logical stuffs to solve the problem in the best way. I’m always confident and optimist because I trust myself and my skills to solve the problem, even if I’m unsure.
During arguments with other people I can easily put myself in them shoes and work on the common ground between the sides, or suggest a third option that works on their common side. I work for compromise and conciliation. Usually I’m good to read people, but to be 100% sure I ‘prove’ them putting them in situations to understand their behavior or if I can I ask. Usually I think the best of everyone.
MORE INFORMATIONS: I decided to make this division because over this line there are ‘heart informations’ and under I’ve wrote more about my hobbies and daily behaviours. It’s a deeper description.
Like I’ve said, usually I tend to adapt myself to situations/people/environment. I work inside the box to let the box goes ahead in a direction that is good for everyone and with less obstacles/danger possible. Others go on and I follow them to smooth their paths and ways.
When I’m analyzing someone new I pay attention to his/her emotions and I focus myself on why he is speaking in this way. Usually I can feel and understand really deep and well how they feel and why, both. When they finish to speak I give them advices to plan the best possible solution, taking into the equation their needs and desires.
When there is a problem I prefer to close my emotion in a box and to approach it in this way, or I will be overwhelmed. Sometimes I let my emotions literally go out (I cry for anger or let my fear comes up for some time) so I will be more focused after this release of emotion. To make a decision I put always other inside the ‘problem’ and I let them influence my choices, because I care about their feelings and health.
J/P: I HATE indecisiveness. I plan my actions, but not in a strict way. I know what I should do in every case and usually I’m prepared, but in the general meaning of the world: like I’m confident in my skills and abilities, I have a solid preparation and I’m not scared to face unexpected. I like unexpected? It depends: could be a good surprise or not; anyway I can manage. I can say I have the ‘bones’ of the plan (Step A, step B, step C) but not all the details, that I adjust when the situation comes closer to be more specific and act at the best (not last minute but anyway in time).
NB: I can give more informations on the single function, or how I use it, but I wanted FIRST to IDENTIFY which one I use
Thank you for your patience ^^