If I had to be a different type I'd probably go for the 2w1. THe 2w1 at their highest level embraces the things that I feel ultimately, are the very most important in life. To become deeply unselfish and humble, to be able to give unconditional love to myself and others, to be satisfied by simply being apart of other peoples lives, this is like the real nectar of what I want to achieve. Yes, I understand that enneatype does not limit ones ability of growth. Maybe if/when I achieve these things I will look more like a 9? Who knows.
I know alot of people want to be a 7, I can see the appeal.. but the fixation or fear of being unfulfilled, in constant discontent or unease, that is not my idea of fun by any means. Maybe it scares me so much because I have a 7w.
I wouldn't want to be a 5 because I cant comprehend being emotionally detached, passion and emotion is too fulfilling.
I wouldn't want to be a 4 because I enjoy seeing myself as connected and similar to people.
I wouldn't want to be an 8 because despite the outer power-image, I think it would suck to have such control issues and I could never stand the energy required to maintain this.
3's Could be cool. Anytype at its healthiest levels would be awesome really.
Why wouldnt I want to be a 9? If i really am a 6 this would be my point of growth, it would make sense that I would hope to achieve this, but somehow it is a scary ideal for me. Alot of neat traits stick out for the 9.. the whole Zen-vibe, ability to let shit go and keep it peaceful/harmonious.. I guess 9 is not appealing to me because I would almost have to lose my individual agenda to achieve it.. I'd almost feel like I'd lost myself. Tada! Ofcourse I would, I'm a 6 and take comfort in my silly, anxious, doubtful anxiety.. it feeds my concept of self and ego.