lauranna
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- Sep 23, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ISTP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
So at the moment i am living with and sharing a room with this ESFP.
For a while we werent working dirextly together and she was working late nights and out a lot. So we got on great. I actually loved her. She quickly became one of my favourite people to be around. She is so fun, flirty,playful, happy and interesting. IN SMALL DOSES.
Now we are basically away working togerher, we spend a lot of time on call together, we arent actually working that much which is fine for me, i can waste hours on end waiting quite happily by myself. But the ESFP is going crazy with boredom. We are together almost 24-7 and she literally does not stop talking the whole time or trying to engage me in some kind of activity or game. I cannot cope! I am having to pretend to be asleep to avoid her but she still continues to have a converaation with me even whrn i am asleep.
I have very high tolerance levels but she is driving me crazy and i am getting to the stage where i may actually kill her.
What would you advise?
For a while we werent working dirextly together and she was working late nights and out a lot. So we got on great. I actually loved her. She quickly became one of my favourite people to be around. She is so fun, flirty,playful, happy and interesting. IN SMALL DOSES.
Now we are basically away working togerher, we spend a lot of time on call together, we arent actually working that much which is fine for me, i can waste hours on end waiting quite happily by myself. But the ESFP is going crazy with boredom. We are together almost 24-7 and she literally does not stop talking the whole time or trying to engage me in some kind of activity or game. I cannot cope! I am having to pretend to be asleep to avoid her but she still continues to have a converaation with me even whrn i am asleep.
I have very high tolerance levels but she is driving me crazy and i am getting to the stage where i may actually kill her.
What would you advise?