What do other types love about INTJ's?
I'm ENTP and the only INTJ that I know, closely, is my bf. There's a weird dynamic there between us. He's one of the few that I rarely have to bark out, "Keep UP!" as he's mentally there with me. There's quite a lot of time spent bickering, but it is just another form of our
. I like how he seems just like ME but a mirror opposite in every way.
He/me
Loves routine/Hates routine
Punctual/
Very black&white with the world/I can challenge and find holes in any 'judgement'/theories he brings to the table...shades of gray
Serious/Silly
Silly/Serious
[we can switch kinda efforlessly]
Hella fun to tease/LOVE to tease
Finds weird quirks audaciously charming/My charm
is the weird quirks in thoughts [again, vice versa here, for different things; mine in how I interact with the world, his in how he just
is]
What do you get from INTJ's?
My anchor, my stability.
Which of your psychological / emotional / other needs or desires are addressed / filled by INTJ's?
Teaches me Fi, subtlety with feelings, romance, teaches me intimacy. Insights into morals. He has unwavering morals, it's quite a sight to see.
He teaches me to care less about my outside projection to the world, and to just
do/
be. He understands when to take me seriously, and when to laugh with me. I love getting glimpses into the weird, fascinating world that is his Ni as he loves the hair-brained ways I'd make two random things 'connect'. He actually indulges in my one-upmanship, and, knows when to back off, "No more, you're annoying me now." I like that, I like when people are direct and straight-up in what they say to me, exactly what they're feeling. Te.
Although, there are issues...but, this is a 'love' thread, so...