LunarMoon
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- Oct 19, 2007
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- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
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Intelligence and creativity are the most attractive qualities to me while ambition and assertiveness are a nice bonus. I honestly don’t believe that a long-term relationship with a Sensor would work for me. Most of my friends are Sensors but my lifestyle choices are so unconventional and idealistic that it could easily strain our marriage. Combine that with our completely different habits of thought, ideas of what we find important, and the general inability for most people to understand how I think and the S/N divide becomes a lot more foreboding. My ideal type would probably be INTP or INTJ since frankly I’m not warm enough to be married to a Feeler. I prefer Introverts since their qualities are less obvious on first observation (yes, they're more "mysterious").
Most people would do that if they feel that you’re illegitimizing their suffering. Telling a person not to cry could easily come off that way, and not just with INFPs.Respectfully, I don't think you understood my post at all.
It's not that INFPs cry often, it's that telling them not to cry when they are crying is only going to make them cry more.