I'm an INTP and I have met an ENFJ who I'm interested in. I met her at 2 social gatherings. She's been very friendly with me, and has initiated conversations a couple times. I'm pretty reserved with people I don't know well. We did talk for a long time one on one. But, likely she wouldn't know from my actions if I like her, unless she is really good at reading me. I joke around some. That and my talking with her for a long time would probably be the only clues, which isn't much. My only indicators that she might like me are that she makes a point to get into a conversation with me, says hi if I walk by and laughs at my jokes. Beyond that, it's just my intuition, which tends to be pretty good, but there's nothing concrete to point to there.
Anyway, I would like to know from an ENFJ perspective especially, what are some things I can do to indicate I like her? I know I can just ask her out. But I'd like to see if this can go beyond friendly conversation first. What about getting into dating or relationship topics? I know she broke up with someone a few months ago and is probably single now. I don't know what an ENFJ would think is too nosy. I'm pretty private myself. But if someone started talking to me about those subjects, I'd wonder if they liked me.
Anyway, I would like to know from an ENFJ perspective especially, what are some things I can do to indicate I like her? I know I can just ask her out. But I'd like to see if this can go beyond friendly conversation first. What about getting into dating or relationship topics? I know she broke up with someone a few months ago and is probably single now. I don't know what an ENFJ would think is too nosy. I'm pretty private myself. But if someone started talking to me about those subjects, I'd wonder if they liked me.