songofcalamity
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Yeah.
The fact that they seek you out, and are possibly even dismayed when you disappear for too long
i think thats a big one, although it may be hard to actually do it, the want to initiate is there.Initiating things.
There are levels of caring ofcourse.
If we don't care, we won't stay.
If we care or are interested in a small way. We will stay, but might seem a little distant, but we'll listen.
If we care a lot as a friend, we will help, advice, initiate, listen and show remarkable amounts of patience.
If we are infatuated, we may be clumsy and confused. But at least show signs of trying to make something of it. The more experienced we get in dealing with this, the less clumsy we become. But I find that it never really seems to go away. At least it hasn't yet for me.
When I start taking personal grooming pretty seriously. If I always have a clean shave and I'm making sure my nails never get too long, I'm probably in love with you.
although it may be hard to actually do it, the want to initiate is there.Costrin said:Initiating things