FalseHeartDothKnow
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It's interesting to note that a lot of people try their best not to be selfish, and a lot of the time for those people...it works, which is brilliant. However, I notice that every person (and I'm not sure if this could also be applied to type) has a downfall which can make them seem selfish, usually under stress, and generally accidental...
Mine is the fact that I can be forgetful, and fairly intense, meaning I can only really give my real energy to one thing/person at a time, otherwise I feel as if I'm not doing all I could be. I will give this person or task, my all, wanting the person to be well and truly happy, or wanting the project to be perfect, to the point that other things, and people get less attention (this doesn't happen on purpose, I get deeply absorbed in whatever it is that needs doing, but it's still selfish and therefore must be eradicated)
I won't go into the natures of the people around me because that is unfair, but are certain types prone to certain types of selfishness, even accidentally?
Mine is the fact that I can be forgetful, and fairly intense, meaning I can only really give my real energy to one thing/person at a time, otherwise I feel as if I'm not doing all I could be. I will give this person or task, my all, wanting the person to be well and truly happy, or wanting the project to be perfect, to the point that other things, and people get less attention (this doesn't happen on purpose, I get deeply absorbed in whatever it is that needs doing, but it's still selfish and therefore must be eradicated)
I won't go into the natures of the people around me because that is unfair, but are certain types prone to certain types of selfishness, even accidentally?