TopherRed
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- Jul 28, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
- Enneagram
- 2w3
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
Hey friends,
Has anybody here ever had to compete for the affections of someone with an ENTJ?
I, an ENFJ, am feeling a little outclassed. ENTJs are naturally more "masculine" seeming, they're master strategists in my experience and they find ways of getting what they want without letting anybody know the messed up ways they get there.
The only flaws I've noticed in the one I'm sizing up are that he's lacking a certain character (he hides it well), he's lazy (he doesn't hide that well) and right now he's got a better physique than I do, but that's something I'm working on (and succeeding).
I've challenged him to a competition next year; a twelve mile obstacle course race that is certain to tear apart everybody who's not ready for it. At that point I should be at my ideal weight and have been through plenty of training. Honestly, I don't care if he marries my love interest by then, this is actually more about him and me then it is about her. It's personal. I want to wipe that condescending grin off his face. But I know the only way to do that is to sink to his level; be conniving without anybody noticing.
I've also got diplomacy in my favor. I can be devious as f**k if I really want to be...I think it's time to awaken some of those instincts and see if I can get a little foreknowledge about the course. Any other suggestions would be helpful. Even if you've gotten beat, I might be able to learn from it. EVEN if you've dated one. What weaknesses should I exploit? Muhuhahaha.
Has anybody here ever had to compete for the affections of someone with an ENTJ?
I, an ENFJ, am feeling a little outclassed. ENTJs are naturally more "masculine" seeming, they're master strategists in my experience and they find ways of getting what they want without letting anybody know the messed up ways they get there.
The only flaws I've noticed in the one I'm sizing up are that he's lacking a certain character (he hides it well), he's lazy (he doesn't hide that well) and right now he's got a better physique than I do, but that's something I'm working on (and succeeding).
I've challenged him to a competition next year; a twelve mile obstacle course race that is certain to tear apart everybody who's not ready for it. At that point I should be at my ideal weight and have been through plenty of training. Honestly, I don't care if he marries my love interest by then, this is actually more about him and me then it is about her. It's personal. I want to wipe that condescending grin off his face. But I know the only way to do that is to sink to his level; be conniving without anybody noticing.
I've also got diplomacy in my favor. I can be devious as f**k if I really want to be...I think it's time to awaken some of those instincts and see if I can get a little foreknowledge about the course. Any other suggestions would be helpful. Even if you've gotten beat, I might be able to learn from it. EVEN if you've dated one. What weaknesses should I exploit? Muhuhahaha.