skylights
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that's... more literal of a slap than i prefer. to give or receive, lol.
that's what really scares me about the doorslam, though. it's like, the closer you get to someone, the more likely they are to doorslam you out. and then... someone could be left hurt and confused and still totally in love with you. and wanting to fix things but having no idea what they've done wrong.
Nope. It'd be easier giving you stories in the cases it's happened. I'll spare you though, and just say "doorslamming" has only happened in the case of females and closer friends.. people I either find it hard to be too harsh with or expected more from. I voiced my opinion, but I was at a loss for awhile. That's all it was. For the most part, I'm usually taking a step back and seeing some other point of view with people. It has to be pretty serious to get to this.
that's what really scares me about the doorslam, though. it's like, the closer you get to someone, the more likely they are to doorslam you out. and then... someone could be left hurt and confused and still totally in love with you. and wanting to fix things but having no idea what they've done wrong.