I'm sorry fellow ENFJs... but God, I hate the ENFJs female. I know some ENFJ girls, and damn, they are all evil. Not essentially evil, but they have some bad motivations.
All of them are popular, with other girls and boys. They cativate others with their primary Fe, and they make everyone thinks they like the person the ENFJ is with. It feels like their Fe is only used to make other people admire the ENFJ, so she can manipulate these persons later, using for some purpose.
ENFJ girls that I know also love making some drama. One of them likes to make other people think that her life is hard, when it's not.
They are the worst type of friend: the friend that we take a long time to discover that is "bad".
There are some exceptions, of course. My mom, for example, is an ENFJ, but she doesn't have any of these attributes. All of them are very good counselours, mainly when it's about love life.