Socionics Dichotomies: R3t2Interpretation of Reality: Decisive vs Judicious
ESTJ is Judicious, ENTJ is Decisive.
Judicious types take more time to mentally prepare and "digest" tasks and situations. Their default state is relaxed; achieving a constant "working" state takes effort for them.
Decisives immediately begin tasks with little mental preparation; achieving a resting state takes a conscious effort for them. Don't confuse this with Farsighted/Carefree.
Socionics Dichotomies: R2t3
ESTJ is Aristocratic, ENTJ is Democratic.
Aristocratic types prefer smaller, more exclusive social groups; Democratics associate with anyone.
Socionics Dichotomies: R4t1
ESTJ is Asking, ENTJ is Declarative.
Askers tend to dialogue and have trouble organizing their thoughts without the presence of another speaker to talk to. Declaratives tend to monologue and risk "drowning out" Askers.
Socionics Dichotomies: R3t3
ESTJ is Negativist, ENTJ is Positivist.
Negativists look at what
should be done; what
isn't. Positivists look at what already
has been done; what
is. Don't confuse this with Farsighted/Carefree.
http://www.sociotype.com/socionics/dichotomies/r2t6
ESTJ is Farsighted, ENTJ is Carefree.
Farsighted types are always looking ahead for new objectives to "conquer" and accomplish; Carefree types tend to take their time. Don't confuse this with Judicious/Decisive or Static/Dynamic.
http://www.sociotype.com/socionics/dichotomies/r3t4
ESTJ is Process, ENTJ is Results.
Process types give more credit to tested methods than the results they yield; Result types care more about the tangible results yielded than how these results were yielded.
http://www.sociotype.com/socionics/dichotomies/r2t4
ESTJ is Tactical, ENTJ is Strategic.
Tacticals tend to reuse the same tried methods they've used in the past regardless of goals; Strategics look at the goals first and let the methods used to achieve them vary.
EDIT -- Erotic Attitudes
ESTJ is Caregiver (Si-ego), ENTJ is Victim (Ni-ego).
ESTJs have little to no sense of "power" in sexual relationships. They are attracted to aesthetic and intellectual appeal of a partner, rather than intensity. Aggression in a partner discourages them. Their desire is to serve as a "teacher" to their partner, taking care of their practical needs.
ENTJs fall under the "Victim" category of Ni-ego types, but their specific role is called "Pseudo-Aggressor." They have a strong distaste for being seen as weak or a "prize to be won" by their partners. As Victims, they desire a partner who actively seeks and pursues them without relent, but at the same time, they also take the approach of "questing for one's equal;" in this respect the ENTJ's role is like a combination of an strong Ni Victim role and a strong Se Aggressor role. They desire a partner that refuses to break under stress and continually pursues them to no end.