bronson
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I caught up with two good friends of mine last night. One an ex-girlfriend, the other just a good mutual friend. Both undoubtedly ESFP's, ex-g typed, the other one I just know is, and the two recognise themselves to be strikingly similiar in temperment.
So our friend was telling us all about the boy she's currently angling for.
She's an extreeeeemely funny girl, really confident and always the life of the party. I can't stop laughing when she's around.
She was really really frustrated because she knows she's really confident with guys normally, flirting and whatever else.
Anyway, with this guy she really likes she is finding it impossible to open up to him about her feelings.
And she's confused because she recognises she's the confident, funny, outgoing type and yet she can't talk about her feelings.
Do other ESFP's have trouble talking about their feelings openly?
I was thinking of the socionics SEE, with Se Fi. So when it comes to feelings they're less open?
Thoughts:
So our friend was telling us all about the boy she's currently angling for.
She's an extreeeeemely funny girl, really confident and always the life of the party. I can't stop laughing when she's around.
She was really really frustrated because she knows she's really confident with guys normally, flirting and whatever else.
Anyway, with this guy she really likes she is finding it impossible to open up to him about her feelings.
And she's confused because she recognises she's the confident, funny, outgoing type and yet she can't talk about her feelings.
Do other ESFP's have trouble talking about their feelings openly?
I was thinking of the socionics SEE, with Se Fi. So when it comes to feelings they're less open?
Thoughts: