flossyglam, be sure to target an emotionally mature intj. baby robots are trouble.
Yeah...I might be a little late on this response, but I thought I'd throw in my thoughts anyway.
My experience with a male INTJ I was in a relationship with was a mixed one. He wasn't one of the emotionally mature ones and while we had a great time together, in general, I felt like his complete obstinacy at being emotionally unavailable was kind of childish and infuriating. It was like he didn't even try, which was baffling because we had decided to be in a
relationship together. It was also kind of like we spoke in the same language, but two different dialects (like he was Cantonese and I was Mandarin). So it was frustrating when we thought that we had "got" one another and we really hadn't.
It also didn't help that we both had strong opinions and, like
YourLocalJesus said, our relationship ended in a hail of bullets and lots of fire. We're still friends, but that's probably all we'll ever be. More like brother and sister than significant others.
INFJs are a MUCH better fit. Not without it's problems, but seriously, INFJ guys are so adorably loveable. They just need to learn how to not be QUITE so emotional sometimes. :rolli: